My first wife died of cancer in 2004. I met and married a Filipina and we were married in 2005. Shortly after our marriage she went through menopause. The second time I went through that! On the other side of menopause, she lost ALL interest in being intimate. She is very cold to any kind of affection. We are good friends and we enjoy a lot of things. Recently she moved to another bedroom because I asked her to stop using her i-pad in bed when I need to sleep. I start work at 5:00 am.
Now we are just like roommates without benefits.
I have not strayed and I do not view pornography, but it has become very hard to remain celibate when it's not my choice. Fifteen years of this is getting old.
Any recommendations?
