Adtr23

This makes a lot of sense. I get it that even though I don't have a restricting relationship with her, she might be feeling hesitant or restricted to explore things on her own. I will give her a good amount of space for a couple of weeks and see if it works out. Else, we can call this off and maybe give it a try in the future if our paths cross. Thank you for your insight.

Yes, I'm planning to do so as well.

Alright. I shall keep that in mind. I did ask her if she loves me and is genuinely trying to fix things up for us to which her replies are positive. I have asked her to warm up to the idea of a therapy session for her and she's ready to go see a doctor eventually if she keeps feeling the same way. Thank you for your views. They are insightful.

I Understand, but it's very heartbreaking for me. I'm trying so hard to be normal but I'm constantly failing to do so. We have just gone together to so many places in the city we live in (We live around 10-15 mins from each other's house). Everywhere I go, this dreadful feeling of "what if she leaves me" follows and it just sucks. We dreamed to do so many things and it just feels so wrong of her to let go of me. But both of us are trying at our own pace to clear our head and come to a solid conclusion and I just hope it ends up being positive.

This sounds like a great Idea. She's a med student so she is caught up with her classes and labs all day. I have my classes as well. So I will go ahead and keep things light and casual like normal. Thank you again. I will definitely give you an update in a few days!

Alright ma'am. Thank you for your insight. I will definitely talk to her regarding this and try to understand better what she is feeling.

Are you sure? She says that she still loves me and is trying to work on her anxiety and i can see the effort. I just feel so hurt and clueless about how to make this better.

I(20,M) am here because my relationship is beginning to go sideways with my girlfriend(20F) of two years. We are trying to figure what was going wrong but we failed to do so. She wanted to break up with me one night saying that she feels in her gut that this relationship is wrong. On asking her if my behavior or actions have had something to do with this, she denied. She says that she loves me but if this feeling in her gut doesn't go away, we will have to break it off. She says that she gets anxious and restless thinking about this relationship and while talking to me. We have also established that our relationship is very healthy and stable. It's just that she feels anxious and ***ed up while talking to me because of her intuition. This is affecting me a lot and I am starting to feel disconnected and helpless. I'm not able to do my daily tasks with the ease and enthusiasm like before. I'm not able to eat anything and I feel my stomach drop every time I think about her feelings towards me and this relationship. Has anyone faced a relationship hurdle similar to this? Could anyone tell me how to deal with this? We are currently making a journal to keep track of our daily emotions and are being 100% blunt and honest with them.