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  1. Maverick32x
    BtR, thats actually true... its some type of depression (don't remember what its called) But some people are effected (affected?) by the diffrent seasons!!! Sadly, I have no advice for you, maybe try to switch up your routine a bit to begin to do something diffrent? for example if you always go to the gym to work out, maybe run outside or something?
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    I don't think I've asked a girl on a "date" in a LONG TIME!!! However, I have "hung out" a lot.... I ask girls if they want to 'hang out' or 'do something after work' all the time.... I guess it just makes it a bit more casual (in my eyes) than a real date...... Despite the fact that we are doing "date" sorta stuff... besides, I see dating as just trying to get to know someone..... and if I ask someone on a 'date' I don't want them to get the wrong impression and feel like I want to be exlusive with them, because most of the time, I just want to see what they are like
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    where you dating this "close female friend"? And I'm going to go with a big "no" that her feelings could of quickly shifted this fast within a couple of days.... I would let things simmer a bit, so both of you can think clearly, before attempting to mend any sort of tears you have in the relationship..... How recently is recently? like, you yesterday? month ago?
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    He sounds like a really shy guy.... who is obviously interested in you, and taking FOREVER to make some kind of a move!!! how old is he? Because he might just need a push in the right direction
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    Well I don't think advancement of a relationship is what you are looking for? to my knowledge you want to see this person (or else you wouldn't be posting here) And sure it may hurt to see him, but I think it would be better to just see him and get it over with.... instead of just running? I don't know.. it just seems childish
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    I personally would go see him..... I would like to have closure on the relationship.. even if it would hurt, I guess I would get more satisfaction knowing that we officially ended it instead of just doing it over the phone...... also, I would like him/her to see what she is missing out on now that I'm gone (i guess that last bit is a tad spiteful ;; )
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    I'm a butt guy, and I'm gonna say that I like smaller tighter butt.... I would take that over a girl with huge boobs anyday!
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    If hes talking about sleeping with other girls, he seems to have no strong interest in you... he knows that by doing all the things he did you will be thinking about him later, and has established you as a consistent hook up... someone he can call whenever he wants, pretends to have feelings for you, and move on.... If you want someone to fool around with, go ahead, but from what you have described I wouldn't count on this forming into any real relationship. There are some Guys/Girls that want admirers.. for whatever reason they find satisfaction in the amount of people that like them..... this is just another way to get an "admirer" for them.
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    I agree with scotcha. I personally would never date someone that was into really hard drugs, and I never WILL date someone that is. I once was with a girl, things were going great, and than out of no where she tells me that she always wanted to try ectasy... I laughed it off and thought she was joking, until she started to explain it more... That was the last time I ever talked to her. Is that being immature? It might be. But I have standards for a relationship, and a few of them I won't compromise. I would say that if you are comfortable with her using the softer drugs, don't mention it, but the other ones I would really put my foot down. There is nothing to research, they are NOT good!!! lol Good luck~ EDIT hmm.. there was quite a topic formed there... lol
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    hmm.. its a pretty touchy situation.... I've never had experience with that so I don't want to step outside my experiences. sorry ;; Personally I would try to change my frame of mind, since it is something that won't help your relationship at all~ (Easier said than done I know ;; )
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    hmm... Well is there any reason you would not trust her if thats the issue? It seems like you are really into her, and aren't feeling a 100% return of those feelings..... I guess my advice would be to really realize that she has a life without you that she needs to take care of.... personally I would hate if a girlfriend of mine completely relied on me and never wanted to hang out with her friends and just obsessed over me...... what do you get frustrated over? that she is not giving you enough attention? Or is it that you don't feel like she cares about you?
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    I (oddly enough) LOVE listening to people talk.... I (personally) think I'm a really good listener, and always like thinking up of questions and ways to respond to what they are talking about... I guess I do this because I really hope people listen to my (sometimes dumb) stories and such. And I figure the best way to show that I understand is by asking questions that are relavent to what they are saying...
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    good work~
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    maybe too fast? I'm going out on a limb here and relate it to any other nerve in your body... for example, if you keep tapping your hand on your forearm, eventually you will loose sensitivity... so perhaps you are going too fast and numbing it..... if that makes sense.. and i'm not a girl so I'm sure they have better advice for you!!!
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    I just read all of that... and wow is all I have to say..... You are on the right path on making her choose, but you really need to be serious about it. NC is the ONLY path, right now she knows that she can do whatever she wants and you still will be there..... She needs to realize that by staying with this.. err.... dirtbag?.... she will miss out on a great guy.... Good luck~
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    from personal experience.. it completely depends on the person... the way it usually works is that you remember parts of the night... but are unable to form a comprehensive recollection of events.... atleast for most people it seems. Some people get so drunk that they don't remember anything that happens... or they do something so embarrassing that they use the alcohol as an excuse... who knows?
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    haha, ya it was pretty funny, I was sitting down in my basement playing video games.. which I guess was kinda lousy cuz most of my family was upstairs and stuff (but I am still kind of bitter that I'm not out with my friends) and my phone is ringing, and of course its people wishing me a happy new year... and I was like.. so.... thats it? I made it i guess and kept playing, and now am getting ready to go to bed~
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    Regardless of when he called, I think you and your friend had your minds set on not giving him a chance... Again, she probably already has her mind made up as to if she WANTS you to call her or not...... I honestly don't think timing has much to do with it... unless you call her the minute you leave the bar... or a couple months later.... I think a day or so or the next weekend isnt that bad of a thing... Calling after is kind of the true test to see if they were ever really interested I feel... they probably already made up their minds, time to see the results!!
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    Yep, I was unable to join my friend in their celebrations kind of far away... and just don't have the motivation to start calling people... and now just feel pretty lonely... ;;; instead of having a pity party however, I think I'm just going to go to bed early ha~
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    It seems to me (and I could be wrong) that you are labeling yourself as something, and not allowing yourself to escape that label... This is a little activity I did along time ago, and I still think it is EXTREMELY helpful... Try to think of one major negative thing about yourself..... that you just feel is part of your "personality" be it "Shy", "ugly" "annoying"... or something that you don't like about yourself that you want to change..... like you want to be more confident in front of people... stuff like that.... Well, now I want you to think back to when you first 'realized' that you were that negative thing.... for example think of the first time you realized that you were shy, or unattractive... for alot of people it can be as far back as maybe 10, 12 years old..... For me, I used to think that I was shy, and it was just something that I was... I thought this because my Mom used to tell people that I was just shy and didnt like to be outgoiing.. ect.... well I internalized this thought, and it was alot like a self-fullfilling prophecy... Ok, now that we have targetted a negative thought, and when you first realized that you labeled yourself as this negative thing.. I want you to use some common sense..... You don't think that throughout all those years you have changed at all? you don't think you look diffrent, act diffrent? You have been living under a label that someone else has made for you (or you made for yourself based on other people). There is NO reason that you can't change that label IF YOU WANT TO!!!! I guess the point of all this is to realize that who you were a couple years ago is NOT the same person that you are now... and you need to perhaps look at yourself and start figuring out who you really want to be.. hopefully that helps and makes some sense
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    Sadly I know nothing about Arizona sailing... but that sounds REALLY cool!!! Good luck In Chicago we have the lake here, and there are boats that are rentable.. however Lake Michigan is kind of large.. and popular... So I'm not sure how it would work out for you!!! There might be a way for you to contact a private boat owner.... explain the situation... and see if they would be willing to take you out for a little bit..... start by contacting some sort of port that keeps sail boats... I know where we keep our sailboat: its a very close knit community that are all really nice and helpful... hopefully you can find someone like that!!! Good luck!!
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    couldn't of said it better myself Budman..... Its almost always easier to continue doing what you are used to, but it takes a bit of guts to try something diffrent.... I would defintely give the new guy a shot, there is no reason that you need to keep hurting yourself over the old guy!!!
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    Well, I guess I don't see the mixed signals... he has been attempting to talking to you, I assume the dinner went well... you guys talked for awhile... he missed one of your text's and wanted to have plans next time you were availible...... and you haven't talked to him since... hinting that YOU weren't interested.... Is there more that is making you feel like you guys are just friends?
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    the way it went down was that she actually had class with him.... he invited her over to do homework... and I guess forced himself on her... and than claimed that she wanted to the entire time... and than was telling people that she called him right afterwards so they could do it again, and he had to tell her no..... and according to her, he completely ignores her now.... telling people that she wanted to when he was confronted by one of her friends
  25. Maverick32x
    I cheated on a girlfriend that I still to this day regret, and never have even thought of doing it again. It just wasn't worth it.... oh ya, she never found out, but I felt so guilty that I ended a 2 year relationship >_
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