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  1. It's almost 2 years since my boyfriend and I have been dating. It has not always been an easy road, as with any relationship out there. For the past 3 months or so, he has been pretty busy helping his Dad out with some home construction. We don't live together, so it's not like I see him everyday, though we make an effort to talk almost every night. Some nights he's tired and some nights I fall asleep before he even calls because I work a full time job. I've mentioned that I'd like to meet with him multiple times, even if for a movie date or like a day where I visit him but he doesn't seem to want that to happen. It must be him just being focused on finishing his work at his Dad's with zero distractions, but he doesn't seem to want to make time for me. I mean, he has visited me like once or twice over the 3 month span to drop stuff off, but we haven't actually had a day to ourselves. I try to remind myself that we're young (he's 19 and I'm 20) but I'm not sure that age has anything to do with making time for someone. Could it be that he no longer feels the need to make an effort because he has already got me? We joke about breaking up sometimes, but I can't help but wonder if he actually wants that to happen. He confuses me, one time he talks of the future and the next he talks of breaking up as if it's the easiest thing ever...even if he says he is joking, I'm not sure what to believe. I'm wondering if I should call it quits or keep going because of the genuine love there....I'm wondering if love is even enough if someone makes no effort. I try to take steps to make efforts but it doesn't work out because he's just not always with it. I really want us to work out but at the same time, I'm wondering if I'm trying too hard for something that may already have fizzled out. Can someone please tell me if these feelings of doubt are normal, too much, or valid?
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