DanceWithMe02

Thanks all for taking the time to respond. I still haven't brought myself to do it. Last night we were texting each other until 5am. And he's being so sweet about it, when I told him goodnight he texted back, "help me kick off the new year right" I want to call him tonight. I really do. And I'm gonna make myself call him. I'm just gonna take that plunge. I think. I hope.

There's this guy I've known for a little more than a year now. We were good friends, and then he began having feelings for me, and things were different because I didn't have them in return. For a while he respected my decision, but then all of a sudden he was just rude, and he hurt me (not physically), but it hurts to have a good friend become a total jerk to you, he's kinda been the same ever since (this started about 3 months ago) and I don't know why, but I'm still friends with him. We're on winter break right now, and we haven't talked for a week. He sent me one of those e-cards thing and I'm kinda obliged to open it. I think that I'm feeling like I really don't want to be his friend. I don't know. What am I feeling? Do I open it?

This guy and I that I met online have been exchanging e-mails and pictures for almost 8 months now. I gave him my number and he gave me his thinking that if he called I would be okay with actually talking to him and having a conversation with him. I thought I would be okay, but I can't seem to get myself to pick up the phone to call him or answer the phone when he calls. Not that I don't like him, because I do, I'm just afraid of many things...not being able to hold a conversation or he hating my voice. He has called me and left me voicemails and he's incredible. I told him that I am scared. And he's being patient, but I think this is just being blown out of proportion, but I still can't get over it. I really like him and he really likes me. Help.

Thank you everyone.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and last night we tried making love for the first time, he's 23 and I'm 20, he has experience, I was a virgin. We've talked about it before and he knows, so he went really slow, but last night when he was inside me and he started going in and out I started crying...not because it hurt or anything, but because I'm just so in love with him and I was so unbelieveably happy that I gave my virginity to him, but when tears started flowing from my eyes, he pulled out and was immediately concerned about me...I told him that I was okay and that I'm just so in love and was overwhelmed(in a good way) with everything that I was feeling at that one moment in time, but even after I explained that to him, he looked almost...crushed, like he was a failure, and I just comforted him for the rest of the night and we fell asleep in each other's arms. Today we spent the whole day with each other at his place, again we wanted to make love, after he put the condom on, he couldn't do it, he said he was afraid of losing me because we couldn't make love...and I told him how incredibly in love with him I was...but now he's just afraid of hurting me and losing me...I love how he cares so much, but what do I do?

I have been friends with this guy for about 4 months and I feel like he's being so secretive about telling me the simple stuff. I know that he's comfortable around me and comfortable telling me what's bothering and stuff like that, but when I first asked him when his birthday was I had to keep asking him and it took me about a month to get it out of him. Whenever we hang out it's either at the mall, the movies, a theme park, or at my place or someone else's place, the thing is we were planning on going to Six Flags this weekend and I was just like, "I'll come over to your place and we'll take your car." He immediately made an excuse to pick me up at my place instead of me going to his. There's something about him not wanting to know where he lives yet friends who aren't as close to him as I am, I hear over all the time when I'm on the phone with him, and everytime I ask for his address he'll bring up an excuse not to give it to me. The thing is he can tell me things that he's never told anyone else, and we've been great friends for 4 months...it bothers me that he's keeping something so small from me. So I want some input on this. Is there something wrong with me? Thanks all.