My current boyfriend and I (same sex relationship) have been staying together for about three months now. We're very deep in the relationship but I can see that he expresses discontent when I ask for small things. We stumbled upon an Ice-cream store about a few meters away from our home and I've kind of become obsessed with their ice-cream. Over the past three weeks I ask for Ice-cream most days and he willingly gets it for me but in the most recent week whenever I ask for it he make weird remarks or tells me I can't have ice-cream everyday. It might seem like a small situation but it blew up out of control yesterday when i asked again after a couple of days of not having it. We drove and the store was closed. All good, until we started driving back home to which he saw fit to voice out that I can't eat ice-cream everyday and made a bunch of comments which I simple brushed off, it didn't sit well with me that my partner would be so upset to get me something that i thoroughly enjoy. I was hurt and kept silent most of the day until I voiced out my frustration to which he told me that going out of the house most days to get me a treat is inconvenient and that I'm becoming a nuisance. He also suggested that we've been in each others space for too long (I'm the one who moved in with him) and that we take time and space apart and drove me home immediately after.
This all comes as a shock to me because if the roles were switched I absolutely wouldn't mind getting my partner ice-cream everyday if he/she enjoyed it. I guess i expected a lot more than what he was offering but I'm trying to see if I am wrong in the situation.
