I met my boyfriend (M31) in November of 2020 and we hit it off really well..(I am F29) starting around January I began getting harassing text messages...my mom, dad, aunt, and uncle would receive them as well.
In the beginning they were very mean and included naked photos of me. This person continues to do it today and claims they do it because they want me to break up with my boyfriend. They claim he is seeing other people and buying them gifts, paying rent, and hotel rooms.
This has gone on long enough. The information they have are things we have only said together whether in person or text. He claims he is not involved and doesnt know.
The thing is, he works in robotics? He is an engineer...and he knows about this sort of thing better than most people. If it were true, I feel like he would be able to solve this problem
These texts have made me so insecure. It has been suggested he is seeing escorts and when I looked at some of the websites the girls aren't very good looking outside of their "body parts" this texter insults me because I have a smaller.chest and build.
I plan to get surgery, but I wanted to wait until I wasfinancially secure/have the ability to spend that kind of money on something just for me. Seems like a silly thing to get done when you don't have much money.
I have confronted him countless times. He swears it isn't him, he doesn't want me to leave etc. But it doesn't make sense. They only text when he is at work never on the weekends are rarely past 6:00.
I don't know if it is him or some other girl but I really want to understand why this is happening before just running away. So much doesn't make sense. Why live with someone your not attracted to ? He rarely wants sex unleww we we are on a trip..and I never noticed that until recently.
Finally, it hurts ! I hate feeling ugly , less than, and hated. The idea of him using another girl to make them and myself jealous makes my blood boil. I don't know how to find out if he is lying and I feel creepy checking up on him at work. I feel overbearing asking to look at his phone
That's another thing, this texter would know things that only existed on my phone in the past. Any opinions???
Also before someone says "just block" they make.a.new number...somwtim s using three separate numbers in a day...we are at 410 numbers. Police do not help.