TiredMan
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How about me? I wasn't even doing anything but felt like passing out. It was bad. She got mad that he wouldn't go down on her even with the odor. I remember he told me that he got ticked and told her she smelled like old parmaghan cheese (which is what it smelled like) lol.
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If you brought yourself to initiate and he rejected you, I would assume you would get hurt correct? You have to see his reaction similarly. I know there is this preconceived notion that men should initiate and be ready on command but that is just sillyness. I'm glad heis at least telling you it bothers him. I mean honestly, if he is in the mood and you are not, perhaps you are not compatible. For me, a relationship is so much more than sex but if it's causing THIS much problem, then it's a huge issue I feel. So there has to be compromise. I think you need to initiate more. And he needs to tone down the breaking up stuff unless he really is gonna do it.
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I personally think it is. I've been there with muscle tightening and all that stuff. I'm not saying I hate the position because I don't. But my POV is if I'm doing the thrusting, I'm doing it my way. When she is on top of me, she can do it anyway she wants. When a woman is on top of me rocking in a way that gets her off, it's not the best (it feels good but not as much as thrusting) feeling for me but I don't complain.
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Yeah lol. Some are very bad. Some are ok. I have been around a few that honestly was deeply nauseating. When I was in school, my friend was messing around with a girl like this.They were in the bedroom and you could smell it in the living room. She asked him to do down and he kicked her out lol.
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She said after he told her to stop, she still continues to.
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Isn't it better if she wants to get off to take control and get on top. I don't get how someone is gonna just lay there while i'm throwing my back out and tell me how THEY want it done lol.
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No. If I offered that (I wouldn't lol unless it was my SO and a very special occasion) and they went for all that, I would not think much of them as a person.
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Ask yourself how you would react if he was having sexual convos and emotional affairs right now with some woman he met on a site?
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I wouldn't do it often but I don't think it's that bad every once in a while no? What other options could there be if it's really bad even if washes regularly and there is nothing physically wrong?
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See, this is a pet peeve of mine: missionary position. I like it, as much as I like other. But I do know of women who basically always lay on their back and do it this way. Even most of the time, yet expect me to do it in a way that gets them off. My view is sorry if you want to just lay there while I do all this work, it's gonna be all about me. If she wants the other, she needs to get on top and do the work. Obviously the best sex is when all the positions are mixed. I remember once a long time ago, I was doing stuff with this woman. And she says "put it in me". And she lays on her back. I laid right next to her and said "put it in yourself". Classic memory lol.
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While he does come accross as being a hypocrite wanting oral all the time and not giving it, which is key, there is some truth to one part of what he says. You just can't compare female odor to male odor, with few exceptions. Male genitalia is all on the outside so you are not dealing with interior stuff so unless he doesn't bathe or scrub, it'll all smell the same. Now what comes out of it is affected by diet and so forth. But a woman's genetalia can have bad odor even when/if she washes all the time. The closest thing I found to the bad odor type is smelling someone's anus and combining it with something foul. This is kind of nasty but the REALLY bad ones would be combined with something like stale cheese. Ewwww. But not all are this way thankfully. When he has told you about your odor, how did you react to it? That being said, always communicate if something like this bothers you. Maybe there is something you guys can do about it (douche maybe?). The fact that he does do it sometimes (you said 69) at least makes me feel like he is not just completely against doing oral ever.
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Has he ever not been in the mood and turned you down? Have you ever initiated? After 6 years, how would you feel if rarely ever tried to have sex?
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I believe the woman in this situation should get something but it should be almost half of a base (average salary). meaning lets say the average salary in the country they live in is 35K a year. Then she could be entitled to a percentage of that for the years they were together. Whether he makes 35 million dollars a year should not be relevant here especially if he had the money before marrying her. THat would be a fair arrangement.
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I think sexual history aside (for some, like me, it's very important) but I think the fact that someone kept things hidden is the bigger issue. Ask any woman, if the guy she was with had sex with men before her and see if she cares. I would say almost every single one of them would.
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Honestly? If I was in that position of being famous and loaded (athlete, band etc) I would make women sign 100 page waivers just to be alone with me. You can never protect yourself too much for golddiggers lol.
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Question for Men: Women's Breasts during Sex
TiredMan replied to mintleaf's topic in Sex and Romance
Ahhh drunk complimenting. Been there, done that as well lol. I'm heard people tell some whoppers when tanked heh. -
Well if I am a pro athlete and my ex wife takes me for half my money (in the millions) I guess I could always just pay 100 grand for a hitman. I probably would,
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Question for Men: Women's Breasts during Sex
TiredMan replied to mintleaf's topic in Sex and Romance
Guess some dudes will stare at anything lol. -
Question for Men: Women's Breasts during Sex
TiredMan replied to mintleaf's topic in Sex and Romance
I am envious of your dad then lol. Perky boobs are the best thing ever. -
The courts always seem to favor women. It's like a subconscious thing. If a couple if fighting. And the woman hits the man and the man hits the women, most people would think the man is in the wrong and possibly the cops would only arrest him (unless the woman severly beats him up). My point is that he would have the career without a wife. Many players aren't married. But the wife would never have that money unless she married someone who makes it.
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Then she is clearly just a selfish person. Maybe you need to be with someone who actually cares about your feelings as well as their own.
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Here's the thing. I would make that money without her. She would not live that lifestyle without me. In fact, she could keep her own career why not? If I am that rich, then I can pay for my home to be cleaned and so forth. By that logic, she would never be able to live a home that I would have if I'm that rich, so should she be paying rent?
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The ironic thing about is that I would bet that if you followed her lead and never tried to initiate, she might think you are cheating. If it were me and I tried explaining (which you have) and it doesn't change anything. I just wouldn't initiate at all for a while. If she asks about it, I would say "im shy". And if she tries to initiate, I would turn her down. I always feel when people get a taste of their own medicine, it usually changes their behavior.
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Other than exceptions of course. I would also say if in the middle, I injured myself, I'm not worried about finishing lol. But I would say as a whole, women expect the guy to finish every single time. I don't know about easier always being the case. For some, yes but not all.