Thank you for those ideas i think the stress is mounting because he goes out with friends. When the baby was 6 months old he went to Florida for a weekend for a friends wedding. He goes to concerts and I NEVER get a break. He was a cheater before the baby was born. We have moved past it and I’m not suspicious of anything like that. In pregnancy we were closer than ever . Since the baby he’s like a teenager sneaking away to play video games and it’s annoying. I understand he should have leisure time too but it’s hard to think of that when I don’t have any.