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  1. Thank you for those ideas i think the stress is mounting because he goes out with friends. When the baby was 6 months old he went to Florida for a weekend for a friends wedding. He goes to concerts and I NEVER get a break. He was a cheater before the baby was born. We have moved past it and I’m not suspicious of anything like that. In pregnancy we were closer than ever . Since the baby he’s like a teenager sneaking away to play video games and it’s annoying. I understand he should have leisure time too but it’s hard to think of that when I don’t have any.
  2. Before the baby he worked 2nd shift. Got off at 11pm played video games until 2-3am slept til 2pm when it was time to get up and go to work. He’s playing video games upstairs and watching football . Things he can do in the room with me and the baby. He makes an excuse to go upstairs and just doesn’t come back down. I think he doesn’t want to share responsibility in watching the baby . Hes 1 years old and busy. I just can’t get much done without help.
  3. I feel very irritated. My bf of 5 years and I have a child together one years old and I stay home during the week and watch the baby so he can work an 8hr day shift. Once he gets off he takes a 2hr *** and shower and finally comes downstairs to relieve me. I go take my shower about 45 mins to an hour. Then I wash bottles and cook dinner. Fast forward to today when I have to go to work.. I get off same time he does take an hour in the bathroom come downstairs to get the baby. He goes up to shower and doesn’t come down for hours. I’m yelling for him to come down periodically. He finally comes down at 7:00. The house is a mess. I managed to wash dishes while watching the baby. No dinner cooked I guess we’re eating take out. So when he comes down I ask “&where the hell have you been?” He responds with his typical answer. “Don’t talk to me like I’m a child” “ if you need help bring him up stairs” (but me bringing him upstairs mean him being stuck to only play in the bedroom bc his dad wants to watch football).. I’m at my last straw I’m tired of having to do it all with minimal help . I wonder have a waited to long to leave. I’m a nurse. So I could be well off alone I’m just tired of arguing about this same issue he feels he’s the only person entitled to a break and I’m the one who picks up the slack😮‍💨😤
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