Paulsymm

You did well getting out of it. Look after yourself and dont look back. None of this was any of your fault.

So, finally settled down in dating a beautiful looking woman, I'm now over the looks and I'm confident she likes me. 6 weeks in, I really like her and she says she really likes me. So far shes come across as my kind of woman. However, saturday night she stayed over. Sunday morning she instigated a conversation and i though straight away that i didnt like it. She asked me if I've ever had a threesome. No i havent and i know i never would. I look at sex as between two people. Then came the thunderbolt that i was dreading. I asked her, obviously the answer was she had. I felt a bit sick at the time, so this is my plan...I'm going to hang on as I know this feeling will pass. But I just dont want to get involved in anything like that.

I think you answered your own question saying he's super shy. Why not give it a few more dates?

Thank you for your reply. From what I've seen she has no temper at all, she is as nice on the inside as the out. I have been told in the past I am a nice person, so I will take on board what you have said. She must be seeing my inner beauty.

Hi all. This might seem a bit of a strange one...just stated dating someone, been a few weeks. I will openly admit I'm not the best looking guy in the world. I'm 53, 6' tall, bald but in my favour I do go to the gym a lot so for my age I am reasonably fit (physically). The woman I've stated dating is a few years younger than me. She I'd also absolutely stunning. So how do I build my confidence and accept she wants to be dating me as I seem to be in denial just now.