bbygrl797

ive been with a guy for 4 months and i have been taking things slow im not jumping into things, but today he told me he loved me and i was like what? and he didnt say anything anymore! i dont love him i like him but i dont love him. What hurts more someone telling u they love u when they dont or someone not saying it back at all??? i know he really meant something to him because he has never told any of his ex girlfriends that he loves them and he always talks about how he doesnt love any girl except for his mother that that will be the only female he ever loves so i know he thought about it before he said it and now i know he really really cares for me but i care for him too but i dont love him so i dont know what to do! help me anyone please thanks so much

for me it was a very painful experience. i had never "pleaseured" myself and i really didnt like him fingering me actually i still dont really enjoy it. the first time we had sex was bad it seemed he had just barely gotten alittle in and i was in tears. i pushed him off and couldnt do it anymore. i bled a little not like gushing blood but i did bleed. hes very big hes 6 feet like 180 and im 5'1 real small and hes also big down there and it was a lot for me. the next time i just dealt with the pain and we did it. it took a couple time before i really enjoyed it. for like hte first 5 times it was more pain than pleasure.

ok a girl has a 28 day cycle well thats a normal cycle so from there u count 14 days day one being the first day or ur period then on day 14 is when u can get pregnant. sperm can live inside u for im pretty sure like 5 days so if u have unprotected sex 5 days before day 14 u can possibly also get pregnant. so if u are pregnant it probably happened around that time when i have taken a pregnancy test i wait 10 days after the day i had sex and it hasnt failed me yet. or u can wait till the day after ur missed period which i think is what the box says. well hope this helps u

omg! honey # 1 u are kind of young to be having sex giving head any of that and #2 why would u want to do somethin for the first time with somone like that he doesnt sound very how can i say it he doesnt sound smart he obviously has had past experiences he could be carrying an std and what if he gives it to u and #3 ur first time should be special with someone u truelly care about u and cares about u too. u only get one first time and it should be something u look back on and smile about not something u regret. dont u think??? u shouldnt just hook up with him b/c hes hooked up with girls b4 that shouldnt mean u have to do what they did. if u like him and he likes u he will wait and u should too u should respect yourself and he should respect u too!!!

me and my ex boyfriend were together for 2 years well almost it ws a year and 11 months. well one day to another he changed his mind on how he felt towards me. we broke up with really no reason why. i just dont see how he could leave me just like that after all we had been through without any real reason why. its really hard to get over him its been almost 9 months now and im still not 100% over him its really hard. now im with somone else we have been together for 4 months and it seems like im always comparing him to my ex in every way possible. hes nothing like my ex and all i want is for me and him to be together again. is it wrong for me to continue feeling this way after 9 months. should i not be with the guy im with now or is that a good way to make steps to getting over my ex. if this makes sense to anyone please help!

i totally understand how hard a break up is. i was with my ex boyfriend for not as long as u guys but 2 years. from one day to another it seemed like his feelings changed and there was nothing i could do about it. in ur case i think u should try and be there for her. your probably right she probably is scared to love someone and have someone love her back. im sure growing up she loved her parents regardless of how they were but the thing she never got was the love back. she loves u and u love her back and she doesnt know how to deal with it. so i think u should give her time and tell her how u feel and that u will always be there for her.

if u like this girl and u think she likes u too go for it. but if u guys are really good friend u have to think of what u want more the friendship u guy have or possibly ruin that to tell her how u feel.[/b]