So I start at the beginning. Years back I found out my wife was talking to her old boyfriend. She would have 30min to hour talks with him while I was at work. I found out and confronted her. She said it would stop and I was ok with that. He was not the last. So about 1 or 2 other guy that she had secret call and text. She said it was just someone to talk to. Nothing physical.
Years later we get married and have a kid. Years go by and all is ok. 2015 her dad dies. I am there for her but she closes off and goes into depression. I try to talk but I'm shutout. Daily turns into weekly checkups because I'm not getting anywhere.
2017 I find out that she is secretly talking to a guy, sending photos, chat, etc. I find out that she has been at it for about 6 to 8 months. I confront her and she says it's over. Again she says nothing physical. I'm hurt and I don't ask her weekly now, but every month or 1/2 month.
2020 her grandmother dies.
2021 it's our anniversary and the week leading up I check on her everyday. I get flower, her favorite candy, gifts. The weekend of our anniversary passes and then the day of passes. She does not even really show me anything, just a little smile and I love you. The day after I look into it and find again, not 1 but maybe 4 or 5 guys. I confront her again. For 2 day we fight. She says it's because I was not there. We have tried to work it out for the last week. She said there was never anything physical. She just needed someone to give her attention. I've told myself I will work our relationship, but if it happens again I will not stay.
What should I do?
Ignores is bless, but I want to know the truth.
