Hey Guys! i need advice, so I've been seeing this guy who has split up with his partner they have a child together but he just seems to be running around after her all the time, and everytime i mention it i get it thrown back in my face and in the wrong to question it. I understand he has to be their for his child but seriously!
Few examples, everytime he goes shopping he asks her if she wants anything, not just for the kid but for her aswel, this includes takeaway etc and he even delivers it!
Never asks me if i want anything!
I hurt myself and thought i had broken a bone, needed an xray, never once offered to help me was too busy working, i went into hospital and the day after he gets in touch to say hello, but his ex partner goes into hospital he dropped her off at the door, picked her back up and took her back to his house to look after her! I didn't get that treatment!
And another thing she lets herself in his house when he isn't there.. i know this as a friend lives near. Not to mention he allows her to come for tea and lets her use his shower etc He claims that he wants to be with me but currently can't fully commit as he doesn't want to upset his kid which i kind of understand but when i question him about why he's still running around after his ex he can never give me a straight answer and frankly im sick of being treated like a mug. He just can not see how much it upsets me or why it would? Am i in the wrong? And i a mug? 😪