cristalgold

I think you did the right thing. He seems lame.

Lol. You really let the girls at the mall have it. On a more serious note, I agree with FoxLocke. I don't think sexual orientation should really matter. Good friends are so hard to find without taking sexual preference into consideration. I'm straight and I understand where you're coming from. I have only a few really good friends, but they reside in other states. Although I have a few friends in the city I live in (who are pretty cool and am glad to have) I feel like the friendships are missing something. For example, I don't feel like I can take the conversations to different levels, or can share as much. There's no deep bond. All I can say is have patience. I know it's hard feeling alone. I wish you the best.

sounds like she hasn't totally moved on.

Sounds like she's playing games. I would call her on it. No sugar coating, just be really frank. I would also keep my distance. Sounds like she's using you.

The fact that she kissed you says that she's somewhat interested . She said that you two aren't dating , but that doesn't mean the future doesn't apply. If you can handle it, I would suggest staying friends and date other people. It seems like you two click on some level. If you don't eventually get together, you'll atleast have a good friend .

The fact that she kissed you says that she's somewhat interested . She said that you two aren't dating , but that doesn't mean the future doesn't apply. If you can handle it, I would suggest staying friends and date other people. It seems like you two click on some level. If you don't eventually get together, you'll atleast have a good friend .

The fact that she kissed you says that she's somewhat interested . She said that you two aren't dating , but that doesn't mean the future doesn't apply. If you can handle it, I would suggest staying friends and date other people. It seems like you two click on some level. If you don't eventually get together, you'll atleast have a good friend .

I think it's a good idea to mix cardio with weight lifting. I've heard it's best to do cardio before the weights but I don't think it really matters. Just make sure you stretch really good. I know you're a pretty slim guy, but cardio really gets the heart pumping and makes you feel good. To good health!

Did you just check for the string, or did you really check? Chances are it's not there because it can only go so far. If you want to be on the safe side, I would go to the doctor. It can be harmful to have it sitting there for too long.

I think Ballys is right. Your ex definitely got comfortable with you being there for her and took advantage. She really played you, but all you can do is chalk it up as a learning experience. Sometimes it hurts, but at least you know how she is. At least you didn't find out how cold she can be after you two built a family together, or after you've invested so much more into the relationship. I know what you're saying about the trust issues. Hopefully you'll learn to trust again. Time is a painkiller. Have faith that your wounds will heal with no scars and the pain will one day go away. In the mean time, let it all out. Definitely take time to treat yourself to something special. You deserve it, right? I hope that you get better soon enough. Don't worry about the ex. Sounds like she's got issues that she needs to work out. The negative energy will come back around pretty hard and you definitely don't want to be there when it does.

I can't stress to you enough that confidence is very important. If you exude confidence (not conceit) women, and men, love that. You don't have to be the best looking guy if you have confidence. Someone mentioned eye contact and that's really important. If your eyes meet, crack a little smile, head nod or something like that. Good response? Follow up with the approach. The good thing about a loud environment is that gives you an excuse to get a lil closer to her. You don't have to yell, just speak in her ear and make sure you smell good and the breath is smelling fresh. Garbage breath's a no no. You can opt to break the ice by buying her a drink if $ permits it. You can ask for a dance, but don't over do it. Don't try to dance with her the whole night. Don't try to talk her ear off. Introduce yourself and get straight to the point. Ask for her phone number , tell her you'll give her a call and go about your business. If you get rejected, take it as a learning experience and move on. Oh well, her loss. What ever you do, don't seem desperate. Big turn off.