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  1. Yes, arranged marriages are quite common here. Also the situation with 'y' is that another thread where you commented
  2. 2 years back I met a guy at work and we started dating. We have cultural differences (we are from a place where some parents are too particular about culture), so in the beginning itself I told him "if you feel our cultural differences becomes a hurdle in case if we want to take it further in future, it's better to stop dating right now". He said it won't be a problem. 5 months after we started dating, pandemic started so we moved to our respective hometowns. Then it became a distant relationship but we are in touch all the time. We never had any huge arguments it's all going fine for an year. Then oneday he said if this pandemic continues and we have to stay part for long-time it's better to move seperate ways because we have met each other in person only for 5 months also he added after staying with his parents for an year he's feeling cultural differences might also becomes a hurdle. But he doesn't want to end the relationship right away because of assumptions about future. I felt if he has breakup thoughts then we are just wasting our time, so I tried breaking up with him. But he's not accepting it as everything is going fine as of now. What Is the right way to handle to this situation?
  3. Hi, I'm 24 now. When I was 14 one of my classmates brought a love proposal to me(say x). I rejected him, later in time we continued being friends . At present, I've been in a relationship with other guy(say y) since an year. y is a nice guy but he is not sure about taking the relationship forward. Last week x proposed me again (this time marriage proposal) after 10 years saying that he never felt like that with anyone and it doesn't matter how much time it is but his love will be same for me. There are many differences between us, he said we can work on those things. He deserves yes as an answer. relationship with him seems long-lasting. But I rejected him again because I'm in relationship. Since a week I started thinking about him. But breaking up with y for x doesn't seem fair. I need advice on this issue.
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