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Hey! I am so sorry he commented on your lady parts (woman to woman... so not cool). First lets get into the fact that all woman smell differently and it's nothing to be ashamed of. I have actually heard men that say they prefer a smell and some that don't. Same with taste. As for your personal worry, I would not worry or become self conscious. I would also cut it off with him, he does not seem to be mature. Any man who is familiar with any sexual activity (WITH WOMEN) will be experienced with different lady fragrances lol. BUT if even after you break it off with him you still feel self-conscious, you can tweak your daily routine to feel more confident in your scent down there. I'll give you some tips! - NO scented soaps down there (avoid summers eve i beg you) for a soap you can try unscented dove/honey pot and wash around your vulva not inside the vagina. Make sure to only use honey pot/ dove in moderation as the vagina is self cleaning. -Drink plenty of water, green tea, and try a chlorophyll drink. I cannot stress that water intake matters! - Change from thongs to full underwear - Sleep with no panties! Let it breathe - Cranberry juice/pills - fruits/veggies. Fast food or very unhealthy food can throw off the smell. BUT like i said every women is different!! Hope this helped.. sending you much love xoxo

Hello first of all thank you for reading this, your kindness is never overlooked. Be aware this will be long & weird... I have strong reason to believe I was sexually abused as a small child. Maybe around 3/4. To start the thoughts first started happening when i realized i related to every sexual abuse story on law & order and if i didnt i somehow felt connected as if it happened to me or that i wished I was sexually abused? (LIKE WHAT?) Ever since i was in 6th grade these thoughts would form. I had a dream of a man jerking off to me and what i thought was pee when I was only 4 or 5. I always wanted to make out with the boys in my preschool and lied to boys in kindergarten that I wore bras already?? I also got fake married to my unlce and we kissed but instead of an innocent peck i full on tired to make out with him when i was like 10. (He condoned it so idk) but anyways i was always hyper sexual I "performed" for grown men sexually on omegle when i was 13-15. I have master-bated since before pre-K but i think that is normal behavior? I officially gave into the idea that something happened to me when i looked up the symptoms when i was in 9th grade and they read me like a book. I still struggle with disordered eating till this day (starving, purging, indulging) i get off to shame??? I literally get off to being degraded and used.. i have been depressed most of my life, AWFUL BODY IMAGE. im talking full on dysmorphia i cannot wear anything revealing or tight because I am scared of being perceived as fat, i have never felt truly alive since i was 4. I would literally sit there and be like "am i really here? Am i alive?" Self harm suicidal all that. SO moving on to the really interesting part, right after i discovered i was possibly sexually abused i literally started heavy drinking and smoking weed, experimenting with types of drugs nonstop and was hyper sexual to the point of ruining my reputation in highschool. Slept with so many men and i never felt as if i could say no to the advances. I froze up and gave in because i thought i had no right to say no. I literally never connected it to the seuxal abuse until this past 2 years. When i have sex now I literally black out and dont remember much after (mainly through penetration). I went in a downward spiral like a month after the light research i did online. I block out acts of violence and abuse very easily even now, but truthfully i do not understand how i cannot remember a thing! All the dots lead to sexual abuse/rape as a child but no distinct memories. I have a strong feeling of one uncle but no memories or proof (same uncle i kissed). My sister believes the same about herself and she has all my same "issues", she is the one that actually thought of my uncle when i brought up being abused. We both have no REAL memories of it just dreams that feel like real events. I denied it though when she first thought of him as our abuser because he was like a second father to us. Im talking holidays birthdays he made us feel very special. We went to his house everyday in the summer when i was 3/4 to be watched by him. I jsut want to know if anyone relates, I have no actual memories that arent dreams or flashes but a strong feeling and PTSD symptoms. Its so confusing.. BTW i am so sorry of how messy this is, its just i found this forum and spilled my guts out. THANK YOU TO ALL RESPONSES.