I’ve been with my boyfriend a year and nothing like this has happened before…
Last night he and I got very drunk. When we got home I felt dizzy and tired so went straight to bed. Soon after he came upstairs, undressed me, groped me and tried to have sex with me. All the while I was just lying there, eyes closed and unresponsive. There’s no way I could have or would have consented. I just froze and didn’t really know what to do. After he couldn’t get it in me he turned over and masturbated next to me while watching porn. This morning he is claiming to have no memory other than masturbating. He looks very upset with himself and sorry. He says that he was so drunk he literally can’t remember a thing.
I’m really confused about this. I feel upset and to be honest a line was definitely crossed. Now he’s saying he doesn’t remember and I just don’t know what to do. I once woke up to a man having sex with me while I was very drunk and I feel this has triggered that memory for me.
Did my boyfriend assault me?
