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Yes he has one son who he raises. He told me he got custody of him. I did some research and found it to line up to what he has said.

Yeah I thought the first kiss and the girlfriend thing was totally odd.

I appreciate your advice. He contacted me first. He hasn't asked for any pictures or said anything sexual so far. He is the one that decide to make the visit here. It is my turn this weekend to go to his city. I guess I will have to see how that turns out. We talked about the distance and he said I never thought I would have dated a girl from _______ (where I live). What I was told is he only lives with his son that he raises and the ex moved out of state and remarried. I googled court documents for our state and everything has matched up to what he has told me even about the 1 speeding ticket. He did mention his brother falls in love fast I'm wondering if that's his case. I'm taking it slow I don't want to do anything I would regret.

So I met a guy on a dating site and we have been talking for about a month. He lives almost 2hours away from me. He and I have asked many questions and I feel we know a good amount about one another. We have had 2 dates and he has driven to where I am for them. On the second date he asked if he could kiss me so I said yes. The kiss was not a french kiss. I kept it simple. However a couple days later we had a conversation and he thought we were boyfriend and girlfriend he stated because he had kissed me. I am used to a guy asking a girl not just assuming based off a kiss. I did notice on the first date he brought up stuff he went through and why he and his ex divorced (10 yrs ago). He didn't seem hurt or badmouth her. Then in a recent conversation he brought up a memory he had when they both had rescued a stray dog together. I'm not sure how to react to this. To top it off we were talking of places each one of us has visited and he said I like history I like to see where we've been and what we have done. When we talk I barely get a few sentences out. He is super nice and we communicate regularly through text and phone calls. He is 15 years older.

Thank you😃

Thank you! I came back to my hometown. I'm glad I still had my house to come back to. I'm doing okay just a little hurt although it will pass. It was all a learning lesson for me.

Update: So I told him I wasn't that happy and he tells me you should leave then. I tried telling him why I was unhappy regarding his ex and he called me crazy. I gathered all my belongings and moved out the next morning. I seen his true side.

Hi Lambert, I appreciate your advice. I had this feeling for most of the relationship. It just seemed off for some reason and I thought it was just me. I'm starting to see it more that it isn't me.

Rose Mosse Yes most definitely. Thank you for the advice. I appreciate it.

Yes, trust is an issue. I feel he already lied about being divorced when I met him. So I can imagine what else he would lie to me about. I brought up the fact to him last night that I believe he still has to have that connection to her( other than the kid stuff) he got upset and went to sleep. Today he only text me once and said his cell service was bad at work today 🤔. Another strange thing is he bought me some shoes that I usually don't wear but when I met his ex she had the same pair but a different color. He gave me access to his work email and I seen 2 years ago he sent her a link for the same boots he bought me last summer. I know this sounds crazy but I kinda struggle with all this.

That's exactly what I was thinking.i feel like the rebound. He did mention he doesn't like to be alone so I feel he has me feeling a void.

I'm thankful to get your advice. This has been weighing on me. I feel okay other than he may still be talking with her behind my back. I know talking about the kid is acceptable. I feel appreciated and he tells me every day and he treats me good. He mentioned they seperate before for a couple months in the past and then got back together. I guess I'm kind of afraid that might happen again.

Thank you! Yes, we live together out of state from where we lived and his ex currently resides. He is 43 and his kid is 9. He has visitation and the kid comes to our place and he pays child support. I understand that he needs to communicate with her regarding the son. But the other stuff was unacceptable. I told him if it happened again I was done.

Yes, I now live out of state with him. We just moved in together after a year and 4 months together. I'm not sure if the reason they split was because of me. If I would have known I would never have any relation with a married man. He does bring up that he had no choice and she left him. The reason that she left was because he worked too much🤷. He said they weren't living together for 9 months before we met. I still find it hard also because we met on a dating site and his profile is still up. I helped him delete it in the past but somehow it was up again with the same profile pics. He told me he is not sure why it's up again and the dating site isn't deleting it as he has tried to get it off.

So I met a guy a year and a half ago. When we first started dating he said he was divorced. However, I found out he didn't divorce until around a month we were together. We continued our relationship but he was still asking his ex wife to do paperwork for him. He did this twice even though I offered to help him. One day he was having a conversation with his friend in front of me and he brought up that his ex was the only good lady he ever would have. I found it strange his ex moved to the small town I lived in and then wanted to move out of state after a while where him and I were moving. I still think he talks to her while at work and has changed his settings so notifications won't appear unless the security code is entered. I now live with him in another state but I'm thinking of going home. 6 months back he did mention that his ex wife said he left her and their son for someone else which was me. So I get a strong feeling something was still going on. What do you think?