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yes i have had someone ask me that. She is probably just asking you that because you dont talk to her alot about what your feeling or thinking? thats just my guess

No! It was his choice to lose his virginity to me! we were together for 4 years!

all i can say is dont cheat! It will never solve anything! you will feel guilty about it and then things will be worse! you need to take some time away from there to sort out your feelings. If your seeing both of them your going to be more confused. If this girl taelor girl liked you so much why did she let you go? why did it end if you both were in love with each other or if she was in love with you. I think you should be questioning this instead of being worried about who your gonna choose.

It isnt hard to cry on e at all! true feelings come out while on e and people are definantly more empathetic on e. If she still has feelings for her and has been seeing him then why even be with her? was she on the rebound when she met you? i mean obviously she needs to sort her feeling out for this other guy or it isnt going to work between you two

I actually like men with some experience because you know that they have been through it. I dated a virgin and he had major problems because he wasnt ready and had issues with my past because i wasnt a virgin before him. It doesnt matter how many people a person has slept with although if the number was really high i would have doubts about them. I'm 30 and my number is very low! I think in todays society SOME people dont think sex is a big deal and thats where the problem is. I have noticed alot of people getting into other things sexually that is. Im actually someone who doesnt sleep around. I dont see the point

it sounds like she is playing games.....she wanted you to tell her that you loved her?? have you guys said this yet to one another? it sounds like she is confused about how you feel about her and when she says "u dont talk enough" maybe she means you dont express how you feel about her. Maybe she just needs a little reassurance. Maybe you two havent been together long enough for you to feel comfertable with her and need to give it more time

I agree with jchan 100%

I agree........friend and family are who you need to be with right now! It will help you at least stop thinking about it for awhile and after time goes by it will help you heal! I went through a break-up and it was very hard to not go back to him after everything he put me through. It took a long time for me to realize that he didnt really love me.

I try to relax but i just feel like hes thinking i dont like him or something. I explained to him that im shy but he asked me the other day if im still shy around him. Im trying to give things a chance but i just dont feel a certain way when im around him. I had plans with him last night and when i got to his house i just wanted to go home.

I have been dating this guy for almost 2 months now and im not sure about my feelings for him. We have good communication and he seems like a nice guy but i still feel shy around him at certain times even though we have had sex. I havent dated much because im very picky! I want to give this a chance and see what happens but i feel myself holding back. I guess it could be because i dont want to get hurt or maybe he hisnt the one for me. How do you know? I mean i have had alot of long term relationships and only after 2 of them i felt a spark or just a feeling that you get when your around them. With my last boyfriend when i first kissed him i felt major sparks! I'm wondering if i will ever experience that again? I dont feel like that when i kiss this guy! I just dont know anymore about finding "the one"

I have been a nanny for the same family for about 5 years. Well i get along really well with both of my employers but of course we have had our disagreement about the kids but they usually agree with me on some things. For instance, the kids both have very unhealthy eating habbits and the older one is getting a little heavy. Well both parents also have bad eating habits and i try to explain to them that you have to be a good role model for the kids to start eating healthy. I expressed to them that eating mcdonalds everyday is not a good diet at all! well are starting to try a little! Anyways i had a talk with both of them about he kids having friends over everyday because i dont agree with it. The little girl has a firend over everyday practically and i told both of them that i think its only fair that she plays at their house also. Well one of my employers tells me that she doesnt want her kids at other peoples houses because she cant be there to watch them. Well all of this time over the years i was tleling the kids that they should go to their friends houses to play too and didnt know they felt this way. I began to tell her that i do not agree with keeping them at home everyday because u dont trust them enough or their friends parents enough for them to not go there and i also told her that i dont agree with me watching the little girls friends everyday! thats alot for me to handle! plus, i think thats creating insecure children by not going to other peoples houses for instance, the little boy who has been in therpy because he is afraid to be at other peoples houses and is also afraid to go anywhere without his parents and hes 13 years old! i mean doesnt common sense tell you that your making your kids insecure? i mean for kids that age to not feel safe wherever they go. I mean its one thing if her friends parents werent going to be there and no one was going to be watching them but she is also 15 years old! she isnt a baby! so as of now i dont knw if she is or isnt going to fire me. I disagree with alot of their parenting. I think its good for other kids to see how other kids live in a sense. for them to be inside their own little world doesnt make them grow in a way. Do you guys agree with me or am i the crazy one?

This is a long story but i will make it short. I was with a guy for 4 years and during 1 year he cheated on me with 2 different women (he claimed) He did this because he couldnt handle the fact that i he wasnt my first and i was his. Throughout the relationship we had many problems over it and almost broke up a few times over it. During the time we had problems over it is when he was cheating.We also had problems throughout the relationship with him taking a further step with me as in commitment. I explained to him that i thought 3 years ( at the time) was enough time to move in with someone and take a further step and he said he wasnt ready. I let it go and time went by and i found out he cheated by snooping! I confronted him about the cheating and we talked and he told me why he did it (not that i believed him) and explained that 1 of the reasons why he wasnt ready to take a further step was because he was cheating and didnt want to live with me because of the guilt and now that i knew about it that he would make a commitment and things would change and he wouldnt cheat again and blah blah! Well i knew that i couldnt forgive him for cheating if he still lived far from me (about 45 min) I knew it would take time to trust him again and i decided that maybe i could forgive him if we were able to move forward and go on and maybe live together and start a new life bascially. Well he said he would move in with me in 3 months and 3 months go by and NOPE! he lied bascially so i would stay with him. The reason why i stayed with him and tried to fivgive him is because i thought that if we moved forward and started a new life togehter that things would be better and i wouldnt have to live in the past (with what he did) So at the time when he was telling me we would move in together he bought a house with a friend and i snapped!!! I thought "i can forgive u for cheating because i love you" and you cant even make a commitment to me!? what the heck!!!! So i broke up with him and told him why i made this decision and it's been about 8 months and he still calls me and says "i will commit to you" "im sorry" "i will never cheat on you again" But i tried to explain to him that his refusal to move forward only makes me go back ya know?? its not fair! he expects me to go back with him while hes living 45 min away with his friend in a brand new house wait for him for another 3 or 5 years however long it takes him to "feel ready" and on top of it trust him!!!!!!!!!! how is that fair????? do yo uguys agree with me? because he seems to think that is fair!!