Diesel69

It depends on where he is in the relationship.... He could cheet once to find out how he really feels for the girl... if it was a mistake then it was and he will know that and he wont do it again... but if he is inclined to do it often, then he needs to be single and yes... doesn't love the girl.

Dude.... I have been in your shoes B4 and the harsh reality is that she doesn't like you that way... you gave her what she needed at that time. Get over her..... Just remember that what you feel is just a chemical in balance in your head making you feel sad and hurt. I strongly recommend BIOGLAN Homoeopathic SAMe. It is a natural supplement used to make the brain produce serotonin (the happy drug) in your brain. after one week you will be smiling, I promise you! After you have taken emotion out of the picture you will see it for what it was Just a learning experience!

Hi there... I was seeing an older woman for 2 ½ years. I am 28 and she is 38. she has two children and despite a lot of things the age didn't mater… We never even looked at it… Who cares and you shouldn't even be questioning it…. Who cares… you are both happy… You could die at any moment, why die with regrets of not following your heart and being happy…

As hard as this sounds… you need to get away from them both for at least 6 months…. You need to call on friends and family in this hard time for support and be strong. It may turn out that neither of them is good for you. It's all about you and your child. You need to put your kid first and make your kid your first priority. You may be single for years until you learn to be happy with who you are and your life. Until you get that in order nothing will ever really make sense!

Hey... The worst thing you can do is drink...... You need to go for brisk walks breath and think positive. I know of a really good natural supplement you should take… Its called BIOGLAN Homoeopathic SAMe. This stuff is gold. I am going through what you are rite now but I have been taking it for a week and now the emotion is out of the picture I can clearly see the relation ship for what it was. The supplement tells your brain to produce more serotonin (happy chemicals) in your brain. Also read other peoples stories and give advice. You will find that you will be taking your own advise and letting go!

Hi mate... Sounds like you're In a bit of a pickle… I am 28 years old and have had my fair share of relationships. What I have come to learn is that sex is about 60% of what a man needs. It is such a huge part of a relation ship. Its where you bond on a deeper level and its giving of each other and is sacred between you both. I was with a girl for a year and I loved her but she sounds like your girl… I didn't feel complete in the relation ship because she wasn't into sex. I understand how you love her but unfortunately she can't give you what you need. Let it go and move on. Cherish and respect the love that you had and use it as a beacon to find someone more for you to make you complete. I hope this helps you.

Hi... He sounds like a typical guy... he doesn't want you but doesn't want any one else to have you... He is also a very insecure boy, that's why he tries to keep you down so that you don't feel good about your self and won't find someone else. Just leave him be and move on and remember that he will treat the next girl the same... forgive him in your heart for hearting you and move on. You have a long way to go and you will probably be hurt many a time in your life all the time growing, learning and changing for the better eventually leading you to a person better that you had ever dreamed of. Keep your chin up!

Hi...My name is Damian. I started seeing a woman about 2 1/2 years ago. It was only a casual intimate thing and we only caught up for the sex. She had two children and this was a good safety net to avoid attachment because I didn't want to be with a woman with children. Over time we became very good friends and we had restored faith in each other that amazing people are still out there. We connected on a level that was just amazing… I knew when she was thinking of me and like wise… I would pick up the phone to call her and she would ring while I had the phone in my hand, this happened all the time. We where defiantly connected! I guess I now know what true love is… it wasn't the fairy tale feeling of love that will last forever, its more of a deep respect and understanding for each other that grew over time becoming best friends. On Sunday she said that she didn't want to be intimate with me any more as she feels like I want more from her than she can give. She is older than me and she has reached a point in her life that she needs to make something of her life for her children now or else never. I am deeply saddened by this as she is the only person I have met that understands me and she feels the same, we became best friends over the years. This is a woman that I truly love and adore but deep down I feel that we both need some space but i know its over. She feels that she couldn't live with me. I acted differently to how I felt so I guess she could think that but I know we could. I adore her children and they do me but I didn't get to close to them for obvious reasons… what should I do? Can any one give me some advise? Is it over or is she just saying she needs space... I dont know... has she met somone else?