Justsomeone

I dated someone like this - did similar things - verbally abusive, post negative stuff about me, blocked me, then stalked me. It was a rollercoaster of abuse. It did eventually turn physical. I would end up in hospital. I knew I would either try to kill him or kill myself. I eventually had the courage to call the police and put an AVO on him. You need to leave and end it as soon as possible before it gets worse and it will.

Perhaps he is reconciling with an ex or has met someone new. I would just forget him, ghost him and decide to not respond to him if he ever reaches out with any elaborate excuse why he disappeared. You’re right, he’s rude and childish. Not worth your time.

Two weeks is still very fresh. And it’s normal to feel like that. It will take time. i know because I’ve been there before. Keeping busy and exercise helps even if you don’t feel like doing anything. I found that laying in bed actually made me feel worse. You may not be able to control your feelings but you can control your actions so keep busy. I found that if I can’t sleep over feelings of anxiety, I go exercise or take a shower to feel refresh. Do something that will make you feel good but keep moving even if you don’t feel like you want to. In time you will feel better, you will get yourself back and he will be a distant memory.

Personally no and never

They most likely didn't feel a connection when you kissed. I've dated someone, saw them a few times , liked how they were as a person and then when things got physical, I lost interest. It was awkward and just didn't feel natural. I have also dated someone who I did not find attractive at first, got to know them and developed feelings that way and when things got physical, there was attraction. Sometimes for some people, it comes down to the physical chemistry.

I see it as downtime - for me I exercise, take naps, binge on tv series and movies, play video games or take up a course. Find things you enjoy doing on your own in your own time.

You should want to lose him forever instead of wanting to hold onto nothing. It is such a liberating feeling to be over someone that doesn't reciprocate your feelings back