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mochilove

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  1. He told me before we began dating that he was against porn, and he brought it up. So I went into this thinking it was not an issue. I never want to control what a man does, it makes me feel bad, which is why I feel so betrayed by his lying. He opened up to me and said it is an addictive compulsion he wants to change, so I'm not sure if I should stay while he fixes addiction or if that is a lie and he will not actually stop.
  2. I don't demand he looks at my pictures he just asked me for them for masturbation purposes and I gave them, but I guess they weren't used lol. And no, I also enjoy the sexual things we do, I never felt a need to service him, until now I found out about the porn. Now that this happened I feel like I do, but I know that's illogical. what is making it harder is this relationship is definitely not sex-focused, although it may seem that way from my post. We do truly love each other and get along well and were close platonic friends before dating so there is a good personal connection
  3. we are both 21. Yes, young and hormonal, I just definitely thought with the amount of sexual things we do that would fulfill but alas it didn't and this is his problem, thank you. Definitely possible I attracted 2 sex addicts
  4. Hi, a boundary me and my bf decided before we entered relationship was no porn, as it makes me uncomfortable and is bad for mens brain anyways. My bf and I have a very active and good sex life, multiple times a day AND I give him handjobs everyday as well. (TMI, I know). but every night he goes and looks up naked girls on reddit and jerks off to them. He lied and said he didn't, then admitted he did, said it was "only once" then finally admitted he does it a lot. This broke me. I give him all of my body and he has a folder on his phone of my nudes, but instead of looking at them looks at other girls. I feel like I am unattractive and not good enough. And I am mostly upset that he lied and broke my trust. How can I know he isn't lying about other things too? I know a lot of people say "oh men have their needs and some watch porn to get it" which I understand, but the amount of sex we have I don't understand why he went and did that knowing it would hurt me. I want to dump him so he knows I am serious and I don't wanna signal that he can keep lying. but I do love him a lot and he is very sweet in other aspects so I am really torn right now. Why does he lust after other women while claiming to be in love with me? he cried begging me to forgive him but after dating a porn addict before him, I really do not wanna enter another situation like that as it traumatized me.
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