Drainedemotion

thank you for the suggestions...i appreciate it. my kids are at their dads 20% of the time, so sometimes i am alone 😞 they come back later today. the purchases aren't necessarily things i can just box up... one was an upright freezer, and another was a dishwasher... and he also paid for a furnace last year.... we've been together for over 2 years so its not easy.... i can offer to pay him back i suppose? he put me through a lot though.... idk if you've seen any of my previous posts...

wasn't sure what topic to put this under. I'm not really interested in dating right now. i'm newly a single mom of 3 kids. i'm used to being withsomeone all the time. how do i get used to being single again? I try to keep busy, but always find myself wanting to text my ex boyfriend or wondering what he's doing. our relationship was not healthy and i know its the right decision. however i'm feelilng gui9lty too because he was living with me, and has bought a lot of stuff for my house (without me asking him to - and i tried paying for the things when he bought them, and he wouldn't let me). so i'm not sure how to deal with that either. :( :( 😞 i just want to feel normal again and be happy. Thank you

Thank you for that info. I’m afraid to tell anyone bc they’re obligated to report it. I’m a nurse. That’s why I havent told a dr or anything my kids have not been around him like that. Please don’t question my parenting. I love my kids more than anything. He is leaving today. Have to think of them. Thank you all so much

It’s my house lol. He has to leave

I have. I’ve never been to therapy. I’m scared I guess. I have a hard time talking to people. And no I don’t have a lot of ppl to talk to etc. my parents are close but don’t want to talk to them about my relationship. Now I’m about to cry again. Idk what to do. He won’t text me back now anyways. It’s prob over.

You should message me. I need to break up with my bf. ( have for a long time) yet still am with him. We’ll be says he’s done again today. I’m having a hard time letting him go. I don’t wanna be on my own. Maybe we can help each other out???

I’m having a hard time breaking up with my bf. He has been nasty to me. Broke my ankle and rib. ( almost a year ago) hasn’t done anything physical lately. But yells at me for asking a question or for anything really…. He is good to my kids. But he is a manipulator and thinks he is in control ( doesn’t admit that obviously). How do I let him go. We fight and then I beg him to stay. Idk why. I’m 35. 3 kids. He’s 50. I just think of the good times and when we’re so in love etc…. I’m gonna cry typing this…. I don’t want to be on my own… and sex is great…what do I do????? How can I be strong

Ok. Thank you so much

Thank you all. When do I tell him? Through a text? Like while I’m at work or something? Idk how to bring it up. also if I tell my drs I wasn’t sure if they had to report that? I don’t want to report it, just get away from it

I lied and said I rolled my ankle and fell on my bed frame to break rib. He did not get hurt.

Is there any way he could say I hit him, or abused him first and he was defending himself? This seems crazy to me, but again I’m still afraid… he took my phone the other day and I missed a call from my boss… I was working from home at the time…

It’s my home…the thing is though he blames it on me… always turns it around and says it’s me that started it etc… no drugs or alcohol. Our relationship started out good…

Last year broke my rib and ankle but says he was defending himself ( saying I attacked him first). Mind you I was 120 pounds. He is 270. Am I crazy?

Yes. Live together Yes same guy. Ugh!!! Idk how to reply to your comment

Then he gets mad saying I don’t show him love and affection anymore. I’m drained honestly… it’s so hard then after these fights , he tells me how perfect I am and beautiful etc etc…