My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and been living together for almost 1,5 year. I study dentistry and my schedule is always so full and busy and I'm so burnt out and stressed from School already. My boyfriend works from home and on his free time he sometimes plays computer games all day long. I've had several mental breakdowns in the past few months and seen a therapist since. I am sometimes so busy with school and stressed that i dont really get the time to clean the house much or so, neither does he! I've discussed it with him several times but nothing changed. I mentioned that i want to move out and focus on myself and my studies, since keeping a house for two always clean and tidy is too much pressure for me and the first thing he said was that he can't pay all the rent on his own. He didn't even ask why i want to move out. And when I'm around him, i mostly feel insecure about myself, and i have selfsteem problems. He kinda never really talks about the problems or stuff and that bothers me a lot. I feel like I'm putting myself mentally under so much pressure because of him. Sometimes we go shopping and he just disappears to get some grocery without saying a word where he's going and i just feel left out around him. I'm a sociable person and i discuss every little thing that bothers me or so. I feel like im burning myself out in this relationship and i have already so much on my plate(because of school and being a foreign student away from home and my family).
What do you guys suggest me to do in this situation?