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Djsmmtja

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  1. Thank your response it makes the most sense. I had planned on selling my home before i met him and traveling before deciding on a location . The pressure is from him for me to move in, get married, You are absolutely right- i will look for my own place- if its meant to be it will be. Thank you.
  2. Sorry if i sell my house move in with him it would be our house- according to him. I asked a simple question- if i pay him the amount he would lose, move in with him( not to save money) could you nit rent next year. Obviously if we live together share bills expenses, taxes it would now be Our home.
  3. Ive been there a few weekends, they come up on the upper deck , use the pontoon , etc. Im fine with this year -he made a commitment. If he was dependent on the income it wouldn't be an issue but he is not and i have told him and he is aware that i have the money to pay for the full amount he would losers . What bothered me is - we will wait and see if they come back next year. Honestly if you ask me to marry you, move in, i sell my house, possessions i don’t understand his response.
  4. I didn't ask him to kick out his renters - they rent 4 months out of the year and are wealthy and own a winter home. I am willing to pay him income lost in addition to what we agreed on for expenses- i am asking not to rent Next year. He has also asked ne to marry him so its not a casual relationship
  5. Ive known him 6 months- yes i could move out of his house, however after selling my house furniture etc( that would not fit in his house. I just dont know if i am being unreasonable asking him to Not rent it next summer.as there woukd be no loss of income to him. I dont think so but am i wrong?
  6. My house is large with a large property to maintain. His is smaller and suited for 2 people. The issue is i basically do not want to have people living in the basement of the house during the summer. I am able to pay for any lost income as well as bills we agreed upon., and have told him that. I just dont feel i am being unreasonable to ask for him to not have someone live there next summer
  7. My house is large with a large property to maintain. His is smaller and suited for 2 people. The issue is i basically do not want to have people living in the basement of the house during the summer. I am able to pay for any lost income as well as bills we agreed upon., and have told him that. I just dont feel i am being unreasonable to ask for him to not have someone live there next summer
  8. I think emotionally you're invested where as she wants a good time no strings attached. Youre better off letting her go if you want more than whst dhe wants
  9. I am 60, own my own hone ( which i had planned on selling next month when my youngest moves out west) i met my boyfriend after my I had made this decision. He owns his own home and has asked me to move in with him. We have worked out bills, chores, etc. He rents the bottom if his primary home during the months of June through September-to the same couple for the last 4 years. I am a private person and have told him i like my privacy and would not want others living in there.- next year. i would financially compensate him tor the amount he would not get. We are both financially secure. He says we will see they may not want to come back.Honestly am i being unreasonable? This would. be a major move on my part. Thanks!
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