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  1. Thank you for your responses To clarify, I'm 23 and she 22. I didn't witness everything, but there were parties that we both attended and where I saw it happening. I told her several times I didn't think it was a good idea, but she didn't really care at that time, and in the end, neither did I. I am pretty sure it had nothing to do with impressing me or something like that. She only told me about it when I asked, since I witnessed some things and I wanted to know what happened in some cases instead of imagining the worst. We talked about a lot and she understands me. She isn't proud of it and I am absolutely not fearing her cheating, ever. Thing is, I cannot just ignore those guys since I do enjoy their company and there are instances where I can't ignore them, like being in the same clubs and one of them being my roommate... I don't regret being with her, on the contrary, I am just looking for ways to deal with it.
  2. Hi, My girlfriend and I are in a relationship for a little over a year. Everything is going great, though there is something itching way more than I thought it would. For reference; before we considered dating, we had been friends for about 2 years. During that time, she made out with guys during parties being drunk, around 40 different guys in that 2 year span. By making out I mean kissing and sometimes sleeping in the same bed with cuddling, but she never had sex and stayed a virgin. I have to add that I never kissed random girls like she did with guys out of personal beliefs. That being said, most of those guys are friends of mine, and about 5 of those are really close friends I meet on an almost daily basis and I do not know how to stop thinking about it. I know it's in the past, and I know she absolutely doesn't want to do that again, I know she did that because of her low self-esteem at the time, but I just can't get it out of my head, especially because guys like to joke about it sometimes during house parties, among others. We're in love and I'd like to move on, any tips on what to do? Thanks
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