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  1. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and for the first year had very regular sex. Since the start of the year my boyfriend hasn’t wanted much sex or goes soft/can’t cum when we’re having sex. He was trying to explain his problem but it slipped out that it’s bad, boring, he’s not that into it and that he only has sex with me so i don’t cheat on him... He’s said he didn’t mean it and its just because he’s really bad at communicating and keeps reassuring me that he doesn’t think thats. He’s also said its where he puts too much thought into making me orgasm then he doesn’t think of his own needs and stops enjoying it. And that he’s worrying that i’m not enjoying it so doesn’t focus on himself at all. I see him get so frustrated and embarrassed when it goes soft too. But i’ve now got it in my head that he isn’t sexually attracted to me and it’s making me self conscious and not want to have sex at all. I don’t want to make him feel bad but it’s been really upsetting me and i feel my confidence going down. I also don’t like to talk to him about it because he is really bad at communicating and always says the wrong thing which makes it worse.. I just don’t know what to do anymore:( He’s the most perfect boyfriend, we never have any issues other than this so its just so sad. He also isn’t a drinker or drug user so it’s not that...
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