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  1. No I’m just confused as I want to be with him in one sense but not with all his faults
  2. Not at all just wanted to work things out with him really, but I’m realising it’s not going to happen
  3. We do have good times when we are together, and as mad as it seems I enjoy him staring at me calling me beautiful makes me feel special but then he does things like this.
  4. Well I didn’t go through with it we remained together, but we had another row last week and we haven’t really spoken since, I’m rather confused as we had the row on Thursday, on Sunday he sent me a WhatsApp picture message of his diy in his garden I replied but he didn’t read the message or carry the conversation on, but I can see he’s been on social media, also Sunday evening I was going out for a meal with work colleagues he didn’t mention that ask if had a nice time nothing, he was due to come to mine Monday evening but I messaged him not too he replied any reason I said because you haven’t really bothered with me so best we leave it he didn’t reply, is he playing mind games?
  5. Believe me I wish I hadn’t regret wasting two years with him and feel so stupid for letting him manipulate me
  6. He used to call me beautiful and stare at me for ages made me feel special but now sadly I believe it was all an act.
  7. Another thing he did which used to wind me up is I would make him something to eat always homemade, but he used to say he couldn’t get to mine till quite late so I would be hanging around hungry waiting for him, his reason was he finished work he had to go on Facebook with a coffee then walk his dog and shower then come mine thing is I don’t like eating to late I told him this but he said there was nothing he could do about it, I must quote the dog is very spoilt does what it wants he even has to stand and watch it eat otherwise it won’t before he comes to mine. Is he still been unreasonable?
  8. I’ve made a decision to leave him, I can’t put up with his ways any longer, I needed to make sure it was him and not me, I’ve realised thanks to everyone it’s definitely him and I never looked at it as he’s manipulating me that shocked me to think he’s doing that.
  9. I know it’s all disgusting when I tried to talk to him about the things bothering me he just used to laugh it off which made me feel I was making a deal out of nothing
  10. I guess I just wanted clarification it wasn’t me being over dramatic but going by these replies I’m clearly not
  11. His personality he seemed very kind caring which he can with me, he thinks nothing of buying me expensive gifts treating me on birthdays etc
  12. I just want to know what others think as in am I right to be bothered by this remark
  13. He’s leaving me no choice really
  14. He also said to me once what his preferences are in a woman, he said in a room full of women he would always choose the blonde it made me feel a bit insecure as I’m dark but with blonde highlights is this disrespectful too?
  15. I honestly don’t think he will change he’s leaving me no option to leave him, he leaves the dog mess to the side in long grass, or the dog will poop around a tree but I still don’t think it’s right as children run everywhere, he thinks just because it’s not on a footpath it’s ok to leave it.
  16. I think because he can be so loving I’m confused but I can’t tolerate his ways anymore, he doesn’t wash them often I think he only changed them because I was staying and I didn’t want to sleep in dog hair.
  17. He showers everyday but he doesn’t brush his teeth before bed.
  18. I was just looking for other people’s opinions
  19. Do you think just because it’s on grass he can leave it there? It’s not on a footpath but I still think it’s gross
  20. It’s just been getting worse and I think bothering me more as time has gone on I can never see us living together
  21. No we take his dog across a green area near his house he thinks people don’t walk there so he doesn’t feel the need to pick his dogs mess up but I have seen people walk there
  22. 2 years we have spoke about my concerns but he just brushed them off and doesn’t care
  23. Just not sure if I’m over reacting or I’m being reasonable thinking his actions are not acceptable
  24. It’s very messy and unclean I would struggle to live like that
  25. The first time I found out about him not washing his hands was when we was away in his camper van, obviously it’s very compact and the toilet has no sink so he opened the door and went straight to make food, I looked at him and said are you not washing your hands? He said no what for?!
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