I want to get married, that's not what this is about. I love my fiance and I can't wait for him to be my husband. I didn't want a big wedding and he was willing to compromise, although he wants a big one in the future. So I started planning a small only direct family event of 9 people total. I've been telling everyone that I want to keep it simple. The ceremony, pictures, and a home cooked meal. No decorations, or favors, or gifts. I was expected to plan everything, which was fine in the beginning. But as time went on each of our mothers and sisters started to add things with the phrase "but it's whatever you want" at the end. But no matter what I've told them, they are determined to add the things that I dont want and they want me to be actively involved in planning the things I don't want. It's gotten to a point that I'm not excited anymore, I'm stressed and unhappy and would rather stay home. Everything is already paid for (we are renting a small farmhouse Thursday through Sunday). In addition I recently purchased a house where my fiance and I live. His parents, who live out of state wanted to come a little early to see the house. Come to find out it's a week early and "they don't want to stay in a hotel" even though I have told them before they are welcome to visit anytime, but our house is small and not in good condition (we are mid renovation). I told my fiance that this made me uncomfortable and I was pretty much vetoed. I had taken off extra time from work to spend with him specifically since I knew the wedding would be stressful or me. This vist overlaps all of it. Any time the conversation with anyone goes towards the wedding I've started to respond "I don't have a preference" or "you can do that if you want" and try to change the subject. I've realized it's not really for me anymore and I can't get out of it. I will likely have no time alone, even at home since the only interior door in the house is the bathroom due to the renovations. I'm so uncomfortable I don't want to stay in my own home when they are here. I've even considered reducing my time off work so I stay busy, although I do work from home, and again, we have no doors. I'm stressed, overwhelmed with anxiety, and falling into a depressive pit. My fiance sees this and I have been open about how this is affecting me, although I don't think he understands the extent. How can I make it through this week and the wedding when I'm dreading it all of it?