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Joyjo

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  1. I wonder about it also. Well I hope I can have some transparency if I get into a new relationship...
  2. Straight to the point... Cool makes everything simple. Thanks
  3. If I really think about it, I don't mind him giving his internet and cable benefits to her. She's a single mom and she may need it. I just want him to at least tell me that things are happening. Or if they are talking tell me so I can be at ease. I hope that is not too much ask of him.
  4. So what do you think about this.. ( since I'm alone I need another opinion on my action plan) ... Steps: 1. I'll talk to him about the issue that I'm having and try to keep it as cool as possible. Resolve the issue at hand and hopefully come to a compromise and agree to transparency. If option 1 fails 2. Suggest some time off from each other to think about things. Maybe a few days or weeks. 3. Attempt step 1 again. 4. Time to move on because it will bother me to live like this.
  5. I'll stop using the internet he got me and will get my own from a different service provider or something.
  6. Thanks will get my own internet.
  7. I want to talk to him about it, but I don't know how to bring it up without causing a big fight. I'm hesitant to leave because aside from the above issue, he does everything and anything for me.
  8. I came across all the information from his phone.. yes I saw the messages and started looking through (I understand that's wrong). We have been living together for three years now. To give the internet and cable service away he just needs to put down the residence he wants it to go to. I was afraid they may have been more than friends. And I just don't know how to bring it back up when we have already had this conversation.
  9. Just a few weeks ago she messaged him and told him that the months internet service subscription wasn't renewed when I had his phone. I just slid down the notification panel so the message won't show as read. I'm not sure how long this has been going on because he got me a separate internet service subscription a year ago when I asked if I can use his. He said he will be using his own and he was so I left it at that.
  10. They went to the same high school and college, so I'd say it has been more than 15 years. She was complaining about him basically ignoring her for weeks ( those were the first weeks of our relationship). And said told him that her child (from her ex) hated him. He doesn't flirt but he did have some real deep conversations with her in the past.
  11. Well we get free cable and internet... and gave his to her... It's not a lot but I already spoke to him about how I don't feel comfortable with the messages she sent him in the past . So I thought the boundaries were already set because he did not speak to her for a whole year.
  12. Well we get free cable and internet... and gave his to her... It's not a lot but I already spoke to him about how I don't feel comfortable with the messages she sent him in the past . So I thought the boundaries were already set because he did not speak to her for a whole year.
  13. Hi, I have been with this guy for 3 years now and I think he's female friend has feeling for him. I wouldn't care about this but I recently found out that my partner has been giving his some of his company benefits to her for some time now. I love him and I don't want to be controlling, but this seems to make me feel some kind of way. I don't know how to approach this situation. I can't talk to my friends about it because they will obviously give a biased opinion about the situation. Need some advice. Please help.
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