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  1. Thank you to everyone who replied to me! You don't understand how appreciative I am!!
  2. So there's this guy I was seeing for a few months. We had an unbelievable connection, I really felt like we were falling for each other, very fast. He always would ask me out and we would constantly catch up for coffee dates and study dates and dinners. He used to ring me so many times during the day, every minute he could get. He once even rang me 22 times a day. However, he didn't ask me to be his girlfriend yet. So, when the time came and I asked what his intentions were, he thought that I wanted to wait. Which in the first month or so, I thought I did but not at least three-four months later. He told me he was waiting for the day I said I wanted to be more exclusive and so he wanted to ask me out right away. Not long after he picked a little detail of my lifestyle, something extremely small, and used it as a reason to question if we should actually be exclusive or not. It was such a small thing that I was so confused, and it called us to take a break for a few months. It was almost as if he used the 'it's not you, it's me' card. So, I was silent for a few months, but the day we took our break I gave him a letter writing about my feelings to him. It wasn't so much a love confession, just something to show the kind of person I am. I thought if we had the same connection he would understand. Then, weeks turned into months and we hadn't spoken for at least three months. During that time I was always posting myself and friends on social media, because they always made me happy and I loved sharing the great things we did together but I was always respectful. But, during that time he was posting himself and friends with girls at clubs. Always, exposing how they would flirt and get numbers etc. I was extremely hurt but remained silent. Recently, I got an unexpected phone call from him where, long story short, he described how painful it was being separate from me and how stupid the reason for our break up was. Which I agree. However, I was hurt and said that he needs to work for it, after the stunt he continued to pull when we were apart. The next day, he told me something he was lying to me about for a long time. I had asked him about this earlier on in the relationship and he blatantly said no. However, he had lied to me about it because he thought that I wouldn't like it. To be honest, the thing he lied about wasn't my concern. It was the fact that he lied to me about it for so long to my face that hurt me the most. It made me discover that his lie was 99% the reason why he wanted our break in the first place. I was angry at the time but the next day I ended the relationship in a calm matter. I was expecting him to try and win be back in some way but in our conversation he didn't even argue, he 'didn't know what to say' and left it there as friends. I feel so awful and sick. I also miss him but I know that he hurt me so much. Did I overreact? Can someone please tell me what this man's intentions were?
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