skinskinskin

i wish you the best of luck! i am wildly in love with my boyfriend of 4 years and he is 41 and i am 26. at first it was hard but life is now beautiful! age is defnitely just a number. and i find it helpful ithat he has more life experiences than i do. hang in there!

wow, rangerider. i had a substance abuse problem; prescription pills. i was in the beginnings of a relationship when it really started up. i lied, deceived, cheated...did it all. ne way, what i'm thinking is #1- that maybe she cannot keep herself clean and she doesn't want to hurt you again. #2-would they in the month long program have prescribed her something? was it detox? that may explain her odd behavior. STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP FOR CARING! everyone acts on emotion sometimes and regrets it later, we're human.

sounds like a boil. when you pull it, does it feel connected? do not pop it or mess with it! have you already? i'm only a nurse, not a doctor but sounds like you need to see one asap.

that sucks. you're just talking about during intercourse, right? or can you not do it for yourself??? i'm 26 and have only been able to orgasm with one guy! i don't know what it was that kept me from being able to with others; but personally, i feel like half is technique; the other half is the emotional part of sex. i can tell you that you're not alone. i have 3 or 4 friends who never have.

i would be telling him solely for the purpose of making myself feel better. i have decided not to. i don't know what went on with him during the break up. if he did something, i wouldn't want to know. there's no point now other than it seems it will just hurt. i see everyone's various opinions as all being right. i think with my specific situation it's best not to bring it up. ye;s, it was skanky. i haven't ever done anything like that. never will again!

yes you are right btbt. we talked about it on friday; but nothing much over the weekend. he said he has stopped and won't anymore... i am taking appropriate measures to ensure that it stops, and if it doesn't then i will know. i suppose that's all i can do. or let it go and not bother me, only time will tell. one more thing that's irritiating me about it is that i thought this was something that happens in relationships where the sex is the problem. we don't have that problem and it makes me think we're not on the same wavelength where that is concerned. although it's something we have discussed in the past.

thank you. i feel better. when we were breaking up alot it was because of the meds i was on. now those times have passed; it's been at least a year or more since we've been fighting. everything's good, i just wondered if i should have said something or if i should forget about it and forgive myself and move on...like i will!

My boyfriend and i had been in a relationship for about 2 years. we broke up a lot; one of the times we were broken up i slept with someone else. we had been broken up for only 1 day...i know, i shouldn't have done it. but i did. now i wonder if he'll ever find out; or if i should tell him. the reason i wonder if i should come clean now is because we just moved in together. it's always possible that he'd find out although doubtful. this was about 2 years ago and it tortures me at times.

wow, i'm in the same boat as you, iheartmj10... it sucks, doesn't it!?! the people on this board seem to think that if you have a problem with it, it's because you lack confidence or self-esteem. not such with me at all, that's not the issue. i am having a hell of a time with it. i feel betrayed because he's lied about it. spent money on that stuff. and yes, i do wonder exactly why men do this?!? i don't look at porn, don't need it thanks, and frankly, naked men don't turn me on. yes, i am straight, in a what i think is monogamous relationship. i just don't understand. i feel like he's been cheating on me. it makes me sick sick sick. can someone help? this could ruin a wonderful relationship with children involved. thanks.