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  1. ((Hugs back, sniff sniff)) Thank you so much. I feel cared and loved. ❤
  2. My social media account is private and since I come from a Muslim family, where women are not supposed to flaunt their beauty, I don't even have my picture as my display profile pic. I was at her place hardly for 2 hours. Where she spoke with me barely for 15 mins, rest with my younger brother (I took him along too, because I was too shy and nervous) and then we had dinner. That's it. I don't understand how could someone make such a big decision and judge someone so soon. If she wasn't sure about me, she could have invited me over once again. (Recently I went for an in
  3. Truth is spoken. He may show all signs of wanting to be around and even loving you for instance. But unless he does not put it to action, you cannot do anything about it, you cannot build a fantasy on his hints and signs (that you are catching and overthinking, while he may be doing all this with no romantic intentions at all).
  4. Yes I'm the oldest daughter and the only daughter who could be married. I have 1 younger sister with physical disabilities and my parents have decided not to marry her off. Yes, it seems so. I hope this will protect my heart.
  5. That's the worst part when you don't get a proper closure. You overthink amd analayse every aspect of the situation. It hurts and keeps hurting until you let go. I need to set myself free from this pain. I deserve peace.
  6. Yes, the most difficult part is, this wasn't a regular dating relationship. It was 100% serious mature future oriented relationship. Each aspect of this relationship involved future and dreams and plans built together. I think I'm more hurt because of breaking of those dreams rather than loosing him. Yes, I realise his mother would have been a tough one to deal with and as you said I deserve a family who loves and embraces me from the beginning itself. Thanks a lot. I feel a lot better now.
  7. Yes, this is what my parents are doing from now on. They are not letting any guy (whose proposal we get) talk or meet me at all. They are making sure the parents meet me first. So that I only speak and connect with the guy after it is finalized and completely approved. Thank you for your advice. It helps.
  8. Yes, you are right. Even if he went against his parents or convinced them into allowing him to marry me, I would have to deal with her a lot. And it would drain me mentally to constantly keep being reminded that the woman who raised the man I love so eeply doesn't like me. Thank you for making me see things from this perspective. It helps.
  9. Exactly! Why approve of me earlier then. Why allow his son to build a account for himself on the matrimonial website,why allow him to take me out on every weekend, when the final decision was always hers to make? Thank you for your advice. I deserve better.
  10. Exactly! Why approve of me earlier then. Why allow his son to build a account for himself on the matrimonial website,why allow him to take me out on every weekend, when the final decision was always hers to make? Thank you for your advice. I deserve better.
  11. Thank you, a part of me was just hoping that he would realize or regret leaving me and try to convince his mother. But yeah it's just wishful thinking. I need to accept reality.
  12. No, he just told me that his parents didn't find me compatible for him. When I asked him in what sense, he told me they didn't tell him either. And yes, it's over. Thank you for reminding me.
  13. Thank you for your advice. It helps
  14. I am 24 year old girl, from India. Currently in Toronto, Canada as an international student. 4 months ago when I was back home in India, in December 2021, my mother set up my profile on a matrimonial site (in my country, 90% people go for arranged marriage). I got a proposal from a guy and my family liked him. ( we were looking for a Indian guy based in Canada because eventually once my studies are completed, I'll settle down in Canada itself). We exchanged pictures and my family as well as his family approved us to move forward. We decided to get to know each other before taking t
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