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Missy KKM

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  1. I agree, It would be very difficult to look at him with the same grace again. In gods rejection is his protection...I feel your right about im not missing out.....im being protected. Whatever is going on in his life, he has been cruel to be kind.
  2. Very interesting points, he had miss world on his arm who cheating on him and broke him into pieces, but I also agree you gotta find your partner hot. Disqualify sounds about right.
  3. I agree, interesting you picked up on that....and I also think he isnt in a relationship with his ex either. I agree with his reasons for not wanting to be in a relationship, I understand what he had gone through. He gave me the only reason yes...because we never fought, fall out, judged or had any reason to dislike. Perhaps I was pre mature in pushing for a relationship when he wasn't ready and that drove him to push me to push him away. He doesnt do the whole I was wrong speech, but if he reached owt then I would want to hear an explanation, not that he was wrong or that he was sorry. But why he said that. I feel even if its true....one spares ones feelings and you think.....nah I'm not attracted so one would say...no relationship with you, as we ain't compatible. Even that isn't true in our case. Our mental, emotional, sexual, compatibility was perfect....he slipped that out once....he cannot fathom why I am so perfect in and out. I value your thoughts, it gives me further insight.
  4. Cheating would be if I was being deceived....but I see your point cheating doesn't need to be just about infidelity. I agree not allowing him back in and if he truly feels regret or any respect for me or what we had....then he Will not come back in. Thank you for your thoughts
  5. Your right, I don't believe he is in a relationship with his ex either. Yes it was unkind to say that, I don't think I believed him as I know the passion we felt when together. However I took his words as truth and walked away with my dignity. He has self sabotaged a unique & pure connection....sad for him. Thank you for your thoughts
  6. I want people views and honest opinions. I was friends with a man for 12 years. He had been in romantic relationships with women and use to call me to talk about his life. Also our friendship wasn't platonic but it wasn't fully friends with benefits as I didn't cross the line, except kiss and some foreplay. In last years we were more in contact as he went through a dark patch in life and I felt a strong concern, care and feelings of love developed. I shared this with him, and he never reciprocated and said he was not ready to be in a relationship again after his heart break and needs a year or so. I totally got it. We remained in contact, but u felt he was on his soul building and healing journey But still giving him care and love so he knows I'm still here and we can start something with each slowly at his pace. Recently I felt something change in him, where he wasn't himself and only called or reached out for phone sex or facetime sex. I felt it wasn't us or where I thought things would go. I prefer to be platonic friends, least its authentic. So i refused kindly and said it feels dishonourable and I think we should talk....I sensed something was fishy. We did, he called and told me that he had gone back to his ex. I said, then why do you contact me seeking sexual connection? That is so wrong and unfair to his women. He said yeh I agree it is. He said "i want to *** you, but i can't be in a relationship with you because i don't find you physically attractive" I was lost for words, almost went into shock, my friend, the man I loved just said that.....and what could I say in response because I dont even know what that means. I went silent for a few seconds. It was like my head developed a migraine within seconds. So I said, in a very soft voice "I fell in love with you, so for my best interest we should stop talking and end our connection" He said "yeh we should" I said " I'm going to miss you, and I'll think of you often" He said "I will miss you too and think of you also" I said "thats normal and part of moving on and letting go" We said goodbye and with a very heavy heart put the phone down. Deleted his number and all pictures. It's been a week, and still feel a hole in my heart. That's my issue. But what I dont understand was his words. Can people give me their view or analysis on this? Especially the part about not being able to be in a relationship because he doesn't find me attractive but wants to *** me.
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