Dating and relationship advice columnist for 30 years. Parent. Vlogger. Author if 5 books, more than 1000 articles, and 900 videos on YouTube. Solid long-term hell raiser. Super firm boundaries. Take no prisoners. I don't play with men - they get it straight. Staunch advocate for women and do all I can to help ladies develop self esteem, confidence, understanding of themselves and men, and to make decisions in their own best interest at all times.