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Easchm0494

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  1. I guess I just doubt whether my suspicions are legit or if I’m just being paranoid. Either way, this isn’t how someone should be feeling in a relationship. Thanks for your feedback
  2. I guess I’m just afraid I’ll never find that. You’re right though. Thank you for the response.
  3. I found the place online since he would not tell me and the girl posts a ton of pictures with her boobs out and everything. I confronted him about it snd he is telling me I have issues for trying to find the meal prep service so I can see who he is picking up these meals from. I personally don’t think it’s that crazy to want to know that kind of information .
  4. Ugh I know. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Thank you for the response.
  5. I looked at her social media 🤦🏻‍♀️
  6. Hey guys, So I have had a lot of issues with the guy I’m dating when it comes to emotional availability. We have dated a little over a year now. He told me he loved me about 4 months in, but he never would elaborate. He knew he withheld affection from me and would even admit he feels bad because he can’t love me the way I deserved. We almost broke up a couple times. When I started giving up hope that he would change, a promotion at work came up and I took it. This required me to move two states away, but I figured I didn’t have much to lose since he clearly didn’t seem too invested in the relationship. (we were not living together). He was hurt by my decision to leave, but I wasn’t going to put my life on hold for someone who makes it seem like I’m an inconvenience when asking for the bare minimum. We ended up deciding to stay together and do long distance. I moved back in February, and as of two weeks ago, he has been super affectionate. Like a complete 180. He says I am the love of his life/ his soulmate/he wants to marry me. He’s basically saying all of the things I wish he said when we lived closer to each other. He said that whenever I moved away, he realized he needed to shape up or else he was going to lose me. Part of me is really happy but another part of me is kind of skeptical. Two months after we met, he claimed he didn’t see a future with me anymore, and I found out he hung out with his ex-fiancé a week later (they broke up 4 years ago). My bf snd I ended up reconnecting after one month of no contact and have been dating ever since. However, this has affected my ability to really trust him. Combine the lack of affection with the fear he may still have feelings for his ex, and it’s a constant battle inside my head debating whether or not he really loves me. I share this story because about a month ago, his ex got into a relationship with someone. I am just wondering if he is being honest about finally realizing how much he loves me and if he doesn’t start putting in more effort then he will lose me OR if he found out his ex is now in a committed relationship and realizes he needs to move on. please be kind in your responses- I know I may seem insecure or crazy for thinking this. I just would like some perspective.
  7. He wants it. I recently moved away for a job transfer so we are long distance which might be playing into my insecurities. I don’t think he made it up, I just think it’s weird he doesn’t go through a legitimate food service when it gets delivered straight to his door. With this, he has to drive 20 minutes to pick it up. I asked him to send me her business social media page to look at it but he told me I was weird for asking him to do that.
  8. He just said she “does meal prepping for a few people” so nothing legit. Idk. He also got her number to text her about it and how it works/where to pick it up.
  9. I just moved for a job transfer so I wouldn’t know... something I wish I knew though!
  10. My boyfriend just told me he has been wanting to order a meal prepping service but said it is too expensive. But he said his coworker’s girlfriend’s sister does meal prepping for $150 a week, but he goes to her house Wednesday and Sunday to pick up the food. The girl is the same age as him also. Would anyone else think this is suspicious or am I overthinking it? I asked if he’d be cool if I picked up meal prepped food from a guy’s house twice a week and he said no he wouldn’t. So not sure why it’s cool for him to do it then? I am not normally jealous but I don’t know, maybe my intuition has been sensing something odd is going on even though I don’t have solid proof.
  11. Hey everyone. I’m not sure if I am looking for confirmation or comfort or what, but I need help. I’ve been dating this guy for a little over a year. Have you ever been in a relationship where you know you deserve better but for some reason you stay? Or you think that maybe you are asking for too much and your expectations are too high so you convince yourself that what you have is good enough? i am just really tired. I feel like he constantly puts me down. I’m always encouraging him and love hearing his successes at work. But he quickly changes the subject when I start talking about mine. I can’t tell you how many times he complains about spending money on me by just going out to eat. So many times I just end up paying for the whole meal or at least my half. As a woman, it’s nice to feel like your man wants to take you out every once in awhile. If I bring up concerns, he tells me I am crazy and too sensitive. I was gone for two weeks, and when I was flying back into town, I wanted to see him. He had worked 65 hours that week and wanted to go play poker at the casino instead. I didn’t understand why he wouldn’t want to see his girlfriend. He told me I was a child for not understanding that he works really hard for his money and deserves to spend it however he likes. He said how he’s unhappy and just wants to do what he wants to do and not feel guilty about it then broke up with me (over text). I was obviously hurt. I feel like my self esteem is so low. I just need some confirmation that I’m not crazy for being upset he didn’t want to see me and instead go to the casino. He ended up calling and texting me at 2 am about how much money he lost snd that he hates the casino and is never going back and misses me and wishes I was there etc. I’m just exhausted. I hope I’m not alone in this.
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