So basically my gf loves to be a tease, at the start of our relationship we used to have sex maybe once and sometimes twice a day which was amazing. She used to tease a lot but we would have sex to relive it so it was fine. Nowadays it’s a little less than that which I guess I’m going to have to live with because I have a high sex drive. The problem is that she teases me a lot, I don’t mean just suggestive comments or just the biting of the ear, I mean she will start wanking me off and getting me really worked up until I go crazy. I could be halfway towards finishing and she will still stop. She knows she does this, the problem is this leaves me hanging and feeling very sexually frustrated. She won’t let me tease her, she just says I’m “bad” or I’m “disgusting” and pushes me away. She admitted that she has to be in the mood in the first place but then said she won’t let me tease her back because she doesn’t want to be left wanting to have sex. I know she struggles to have sex if there are things playing on her mind and things she needs to do.
There’s been times before where we have been halfway through sex and she has just stopped and blue balled me because she thinks it is funny. I have spoke to her about this teasing and she just replied saying “Fine I will get another boyfriend who can handle it” turns out she didn’t mean that. she also knows I have very sensitive balls and that it aches me a lot when I am left like that, she said not long ago she was getting pissed off with me always complaining about my balls and that it was making her want sex with me even less. She has also said that she doesn’t like the idea of me wanking, I don’t really know what to do, I’ve never had this problem before. She promised before that she wouldn’t tease like this but since she has, she makes wind up comments saying “I’m going to tease you all day” or “your not getting laid tonight if your going to be moody”. Problem is, I’m only moody because I’m blue balled in the first place. She already admitted to using sex to manipulate me but I just need to find a solution to this.