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Abtmarried

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  1. I'm new too but here goes some advice I think. To me it sounds as though there is something more to it. I've known some shy guys and in fact most of my bros were shy around women, but never sobbed when asked to express. Maybe he needs some therapy or something happened in his childhood or something that made him fear commitment? Not sure how well you know his past but I'm thinking there is something there that is causing this. If a guy is really in love with you it will last past your grey years.
  2. I know its insecurities in myself that cause jealousy, but here is the situation that I'm apprehensive (jealous of). My fiance and I have been engaged 8 years and have a 7 year old daughter together (finally have the money to give her the wedding she wanted she said if shes doing it once she wanted it done they way she wanted so we waited to get the money heh). Anyways so you see its definitely a mono relationship that has family (we have a 10 year old son that is hers from a previous relationship) involved. We are getting marrried in September. Her two sisters are taking her out for her bachlorette party. They are staying over night at a hotel quite aways away. Little history on her oldest sister taking her (her and her husband have this lady that they welcome into their bedroom together if you know what I mean and this lady is going with them to this place even though my fiance is not happy about that). I'm a jealous guy not over bearing just I ask her if she'd be comfortable if the situation was reversed (she hates it when I do that). Now supposedly they are just going to a dance club then going back to the hotel to sleep. My problem is this. Her sister the one that likes to go both ways and swings picked out the destinations in this bachlorette party. Do you think I have reason to be jealous? I asked the fiance and she said she wouldn't do anything stupid. But my thoughts are what if shes too drunk to know better? Her sisters have a way of getting her (don't remember anything last night) drunk. Forgot to post that we also both agreed we weren't going to do the whole bachelor bachelorette thing since we've been together so long. However, she said she can't hardly tell her sisters no.
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