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  1. Over the past few months I've blacked out drunk 3 times. I haven't changed anything about my drinking habits, although I have lost a significant amount of weight, but I never blacked out before these 3 incidents. This last time my boyfriend asked if I remember anything about the previous night, which I did not. He reenacted everything that occurred, which was him undressing me, giving me oral several times and having sex with me over the course of 2 hours, with breaks for water. This is our sexual norm when I'm awake and I've always told him he could make love to me anytime, even if I was in such a state. I don't feel violated, we are very much happy and in love. We joked about the whole thing... As I've thought about it a bit more I've become curious as to if this is abnormal, or something I should be alarmed about. Is it "normal" that someone enjoy sex with someone who was blacked out? And over the course of 2 hours? Again, I don't feel violated at all. If anything I'm upset that my body is all of a sudden blacking out to the same amount of alcohol I've always been fine with. I'm putting this in the abuse section wondering if this could be a trait for an abusive/ violent person. He's never shown he has the potential for anything like that but reality is we have only been together for 5 months, you just never know....
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