We have been together for two and a half years, and last year he moved 250 miles to be with me. We both work so we could financially cover the expenses of a child, he is more worried about his time, or more specifically how much less time he would have to write. He has already said that if it were to happen right now, he would apply for jobs at a university to teach, so it’s not like he doesn’t have real options.
He’s told be since we started that he would love kids one day, and has told me he definitely wants them with me. He’s great with my niece and nephew.