I recently started seeing a guy, things were going well and we both really enjoy our time together and like each other. However, he has now told me that he doesn’t want a relationship. It’s not that he wants to see other people, he just wants to concentrate on himself. We’ve decided to carry on seeing each other but knowing it won’t go anywhere. At this time I can’t bear the thought of not seeing him again and I feel I’ll always be wondering if anything would have come from it. I feel like clinging onto a bit of hope that doesn’t exist, that he may change his mind about having a relationship.