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  1. Oh trust me I have tried that. But he said he’s done talking about. And I told him that when he says things like idk, he’s leaving things up in the air. And he goes silent. It becomes talking to a wall honestly. I’ve asked the same thing several times in different ways and his response will be idk or shuts down. The people that know him keep telling me he’ll come around and to just let it be. 🙄
  2. If I were to make a list of the good and bad, there’s definitely more good than there is bad. But this type of behavior is very bothersome for me. If I talk about it, he doesn’t like it. He doesn’t like feeling like he needs to express emotions. I try to let it go, but then he’s still standoffish but also reaching out on his own. And then when I ask if he’s genuinely done, his response is idk or he’ll think about it, just leaving things up in the air. Which puts me in a tough spot mentally. I don’t want it to end. I’m always the one trying to fix it, somehow. How effective is being distant
  3. Sometimes I wonder if it’s possible he’s a narc?
  4. Ugh you may be right. He refuses to talk emotions and he has this super hardcore alpha male vibe going on so he’s hard to approach when he’s like this. This part of him overtakes all the good he does.
  5. We have been together a year. I’m 29 and he’s 30. He leaves once a month for a couple of days. I never got the “fooling around” vibe but it’s the mixed signals and not being able to answer if he’s really done that’s confusing.
  6. On Wednesday I got sad/upset because he found out last minute that he had to leave for a mission right before Valentine’s Day so our plans got cancelled. Before I could explain to him on the phone that I wasn’t upset with him, I was just upset with the situation, he hung up. He texts me that he’s done. So my initial reaction was to cry and tell him I’m sorry and that whatever the issue is, we’ll fix it. He’s very very very stubborn so he’s like no no I’m done. This is Wednesday. We still had plans Thursday to see each other, which didn’t happen. All of Thursday were going back and forth thr
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