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  1. There is no one else to speak to. A therapist will be the one for me to discuss things with. I can’t blame my friends for not wanting to hear it anymore.
  2. I have asked to please not be judged for this. You don’t know my full situation. I’ve asked quite simply for advice. There is no need to try and make me feel guilty for a situation that I know is wrong. I just needed somewhere to get everything off my chest.
  3. I’ve tried a different area of the business... it’s not easy to be moved without having a valid excuse. I really do thank you for talking with me about it. I just needed to get it off my chest and have some sense knocked into me. Thank you.x
  4. I really do. Especially in the current world. Finding a new job isn’t easy, I’m in the UK and have a really well paid job and one that’s guaranteed too. The hardest part, is I know it’s all wrong. I know what he’s doing is wrong. 😞 I always wondered why people would ever stay with someone who doesn’t treat them how they really should be treated... but now I get it. I really do. I have definitely learnt my lesson. Never to date someone in the same job. Ever.
  5. Thank you so much. I really appreciated the honesty. You understand I’m in this situation and I’m trying to get out. You are so right, I need to get it together. I need to sort it out.
  6. I really do thank you for being so understanding and honest. I know what I’m doing is wrong, but I’m in that situation now. Reading everything that’s been said, is giving me the strength to do something about the situation. I probably will need some sort of therapy to get myself past this. I’ve needed to talk and discuss things and it’s really, truly helped.
  7. I just need to build the confidence to do just that. I know he’s a bad habit, and hearing it from others, like yourself makes me see that even more. Thank you.
  8. Thank you. It’s reassuring knowing there are others who have been in the same situation.
  9. You’re right. I really appreciate the honest support.
  10. My parents found out. They wanted to immediately stop it with him, and as far as they know I have. It’s hidden from everyone else now. He’s living the best of both worlds. No one knows inside of work, I wouldn’t want to wish him an misery. I just need to leave. I need to be strong enough to.
  11. I’m very hidden, I have been for the whole time. Over 2 years. Only his friend knows about me... his friend is newly divorced so he feels he can talk to him. My bestfriend knows, but doesn’t want me to talk about it. She doesn’t approve, (quite rightly)... but this makes me feel limited on who I can speak to. I know I need to leave and I know it’s not fair on me, I just need to be strong enough to do it.
  12. I have no doubt about that. He tells me otherwise, he is not involved with her sexually in anyway. I just hope that one day, he sticks to his word and does leave. Our age difference is why I want to leave, or should leave. I’m in my early 20’s. Very early 20’s. He’s in his 40’s.
  13. I’m not supported in any way. He gifts me, but I gift him. He has younger children, he tells me when they are older he will leave his wife. They seem to be “co-parenting” at the moment. But she still sees him as her husband. I’ve fallen in love with him, he gives me abuse if I try to leave and will make me jealous. He always does. We work together, it makes it harder to leave. I know it’s wrong, I feel I have no other option but to stay and wait for him.
  14. I’m not really sure how or what to do. I feel so lost and hurt, everyday I feel more and more down about the situation. I’ve been seeing a married man for over 2 years now... (please do not judge me on this. I judge myself enough). He’s promised me that one day we will have a future together, but at the moment I’m a hidden secret. I know he’s not sexual with his wife in anyway. I do know this. At least I like to think so. But this man has me trapped, he controls everything I do. I can’t even go out drinking with friends etc. He wouldn’t talk to me if I did, and he would call me all the names u
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