I've been with my husband for 20 years. We had a couple near breakups over the years. Now he's saying that he is not happy and wants out. We have 3 teenagers and a 7 month old baby. In am attempt to persuade him to stay I started paying all the Bill s because he said I just wanted him around for the extra income. I do all the cooking and cleaning, serve him his meals, and I never ask him to be intimate. However, he is still not happy and says he wants to move out. Nothing I do is good enough. I feel like a complete failure and loser. I just dont want to feel this way anymore.