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  1. Nice! I’m trying to do something similar get her to Mingle with others so she can get off my back .. although others are also busy & aren’t giving her the attention she’s demanding.. plus since I’m next door I’m often the target & get asked for stationary & meds / sanitary all the time 🤦🏻‍♀️ Either she’s genuinely disorganized or is totally dependent on others for her needs like shes not comfortable with her own company is the feeling I get .. that’s why the desperation & intrusiveness But yeah , I’m surely changing up the wardrobe as much as as possible too 😀.. but that’s
  2. Actually it started off just as a friendly coworker interaction .. she was over friendly & flattering & wanted to know things in the city so I was making suggestions .. after couple of weeks I noticed the complete aping to the point of hair cut bags & shoes birthday outfits ..I found this strange & putting off so I spaced out .. but she got clingier and wants to be best buddies while still buying what I wear & the need to completely replicate .. I may be insecure bout my identity but to keep my sanity I started being distant & realized I shouldn’t respond to the over-fr
  3. 👍🏼 Actually it started off just as a friendly coworker interaction .. she was over friendly & flattering & wanted to know things in the city so I was making suggestions .. after couple of weeks I noticed the complete aping to the point of hair cut bags & shoes birthday outfits ..I found this strange & putting off so I spaced out .. but she got clingier and wants to be best buddies while still buying what I wear & the need to completely replicate .. I may be insecure bout my identity but to keep my sanity I started being distant & realized I shouldn’t resp
  4. Actually it started off just as a friendly coworker interaction .. she was over friendly & flattering & wanted to know things in the city so I was making suggestions .. after couple of weeks I noticed the complete aping to the point of hair cut bags & shoes birthday outfits ..I found this strange & putting off so I spaced out .. but she got clingier and wants to be best buddies while still buying what I wear & the need to completely replicate .. I may be insecure bout my identity but to keep my sanity I started being distant & realized I shouldn’t respond to the over-fr
  5. It started off with hand holding helping her settle in .. I just didn’t realize she wanted to replicate me so badly.. when I stopped the handholding the clinginess started .. sometimes ppl are just takers they can’t be givers & it can be draining to be around such people who are so insecure in their own skin & want to constantly be you to like themselves .. mentoring such ones can be exhausting as they want to just ape you not really work on themselves but become someone else ..
  6. I think she doesn’t want kids at all very clear bout that .. partner yes she says she would like one .. but not really found anyone that clicked .. I think she’s trying to find meaning in her life & yes she needs to let go of some control & enjoy her families company without latching onto it
  7. Different person asking this ... sorry! the medic professional is me & the salon owner is my bestie .. diff ppl with very diff problems 😀 she can’t understand mine & thinks it’s trivial & I absolutely don’t have lonely or attachment feelings to understand hers!
  8. I’m 45 year old single by choice. I'm financially independent and run a successful salon business. I have noticed that I'm very strongly attached to my sister and nephew. when she got married i missed her & now when shes busy i miss her a lot. i feel lonely and cant do without seeing them both. i don't want to feel this attached. I feel I'm unable to handle relationships. I need guidance on how to cope with these feelings of attachment, loneliness and feel like I don’t have a purpose in life . Pls help!
  9. Just imagine working in an office & having a coworker sitting next to you copy everything you wear. We are 35 plus year old medical professionals seeing the same patients, but she comes from a rural area & wanted to fit in & that’s fine but has started aping me & it’s not flattering it’s plain irritating that someone goes & buys everything you wear down to sweaters, shoes, same haircut from my dresser. So how do you deal a coworker who imitates you to this extent? What I've done so far (Since a year)- stopped sharing details of my stuff but now she owns ever
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