My girlfriend recently moved back to college that doesn't necessarily acknowledge sobrieties, rather they are called "eating clubs" (Which probably gives away what uni she attends).
They basically are sororities all with different "themes" for different people. She is applying to a few of them and I just cant help but feel nothing less than anxious when thinking about it. She described them basically all as parties. I'm just cant imagine people touching her inappropriately or her getting drunk or high and possibly giving into these people or engaging in a scenario that most would consider