Hi everyone. Just wondering if I could get some advice please, as this website seems helpful.
I've (34, M, UK) had three short relationships. Usually I can't get past a third date before the guy ghosts me. Friends have told me I'm "too nice" and that I try to see the best in people, so that's why I get led on and used so much.
In August-September I dated a guy after having 2.5 years off from dating. He was romantic and actions backed up words. He invited himself to stay at my flat on the third date which I thought was presumptuous, but let it slide. One thing led to another and the