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  1. Thank you. I am going to work with my psychotherapist to get to the bottom of exactly what you said. Why I set my standard so low 😞 it helps to hear that it isn’t me. Yes, unfortunately my self esteem has been destroyed. Hoping I can build that back up with help xx
  2. Thank you so much. I appreciate this. He wasn’t ever around my kiddies while he used drugs. He wasn’t on them in a way that was daily or even weekly. It was far and few between. But a lot more when he wasn’t with me and younger. I really can’t wait to be past this x
  3. Thank you so much. I cried my eyes out reading this. I do have a therapist but she is away until the 5th. So it’s been a bit hard to navigate this mess. You are right in all you said. I guess I just can’t understand how he just moved on so fast. Why he told me he loved me if he doesn’t? And why he’s so absolutely cruel and cold to me. Ghosting etc. never giving me the chance to talk. Just completely cut me off. Like I’m nothing. I guess I am so scared she gets the best of him now 😞
  4. Hello. I have never used a forum before. I don’t even know if I’m doing this right 😞 I am so alone and so lost. I need some help. I have a professional I’ll be seeing but she isn’t back form her holiday until Feb. This is probably going to be long. I am sorry but thank you if you do take the time to read and reply. I was in a relationship for 5 years with my now ex. When I met him I had just starred dating again after my marriage ended. He was so sweet and fun and the sex was so good. He was a little messy. Didn’t seem to have his *** together but I thought, let’s give him a min
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