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Moon River

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  1. Here not really, most of us can't afford a house and live still in a expensive room with roommates at this age. Marriage at 27 is almost unheard of. Children idem. If they do they are above 35. I guess we have a bit of a cultural difference. Anyways, I will follow your advise and thanks for your time to write back and help. All the best.
  2. But I'm not that old to ask those kind of questions ๐Ÿ˜‚ I will take your advise and keep sexual things private (which I do) it's the guys that usually spill everything out.
  3. Yes, but I'm not sure it happened more. Would it bother you if someone you're with paid for sex in the past? You're right! I will take your advise and see how it goes.
  4. Haha, ok well but its a strange cause I have never experienced anything different. All my exes asked me this. It's pretty normal here. Maybe a cultural thing? I also wanted to ask you: if I know its super common but guys never tell it, then I know that the changes are high that a next boyfriend done it too. I'm not going to ask anymore ofc, learned my lesson. But then it doesn't make much of a difference. If you guys say "no it's not common, would never do it cause blabla" then I know where to stand. Do I make sense?
  5. Well, wouldn't say he's a stranger. Isn't it normal to talk about personal things when you meet someone new? Like this deep night conversations?
  6. Me too! I hope he answers honest though. It's been a week since we've seen eachother, so if I'm going to start this topic again, he knows it's been on my mind (what did he think?) and probably knows he needs to be careful with his answers if he doesn't want me to go. But I also don't want to be a prude. He's a great guy, I really like lots of things about him and we have a good connection. Also a lot of men pay for sex but probably would never tell. Could be that I stop dating him because of this and the next guy also done it but I never find out.
  7. Definitely, it does make a difference in how he sees this and if it was a one time thing or more. Those questions also play up in my mind. Why did he tell me? Cause there's gonna be even worse things?? Or just because he trusts me and want to be honest? I hope I get an honest answer though on my questions. I'm going to ask today, so wish me luck ๐Ÿ˜‚
  8. Exactly, some information just gets in your head and you see the person differently than before. I think he wanted to be honest when I asked him about his virginity etc. We really have a good connection and started to look like this "head over heals" couple. So to me he seems like an honest guy who tried to tell something he is ashamed for (because there's a stigma around it although lots of people pay for sex). Ofcourse he knows that I would not be "happy" to hear it. I don't get the feeling that "where there is smoke, there is fire", although I might be wrong. But yeah, I need to decid
  9. Hahaha omy yes you're so right. Do I really need to know?Probably only makes things worse. I think he told me cause he felt comfortable to tell me. But for some reason a lot of people tell me secrets. I think I come across as someone that will not judge anybody (which I try, but I'm also only human๐Ÿ˜‚) Anyways, I do want to know if it was also recent. And if he did it while in a relationship. Not sure if he will answer honest though. Don't think so, why would he? Actually I'm glad he told me this now and not 4 years in. I think you're right. Some things are better not said.
  10. Thank you guys! I know I should make up my own mind about this. But I just want to know if it's a red flag. Or is it more common then I think? We were chatting about lots of things that night and we just happen to come on the subject of first times etc. Then he turned red and I told him he doesn't have to share anything that he is not comfortable with yet.
  11. I (F27) have been dating a wonderful guy (M27) for a couple of months. In an honest night time conversation he told me his first time was with a prostitute/sex worker which was 10 yrs ago. I don't know if he did it more often, I think so though. I didn't ask further, wasn't sure how to react. He felt extremely uncomfortable and nervous to tell me. I'm going to ask more about it when I see him again. I don't know how I feel about this. So my question for you ladies is: would it be a deal breaker for you if your date/boyfriend/husband had been to sex workers in the past? And my
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