Spicydicey449

Thank you, I appreciate it. Its just good to hear that it isn't suspicious this early on. It's just been so long that it's all new and weird to me 😬

Well, I had basically been numb and moved on for like the last year or two I was in that relationship, I just had to get bold enough to break it off. So I think that counts for something? I've been in therapy as well and feel like I'm in an okay place to start dating again? Maybe you have a point though. And I agree the key thing might have been too soon, BUT it has only been used to check on animals only. And with permission as he is someone that my cats feel safe with.

He doesn't know a ton about it. Just that is was very neglectful and I just got to feel worthless and like a mom simultaneously. And we haven't had a specific talk about being exclusive. We have both agreed we want a real long term relationship (that it is what we are both looking for). Other than that we have just indicated that we both really enjoy each other and like what we have.

So after getting out of a traumatic 6 year relationship about a year ago, I started dating this new guy right around Thanksgiving. So it's only been about 6 or 7 weeks. We hit it off great, I feel very comfortable with him and I think he does with me. He's very affectionate and not hyper sexual with me, but we do hookup sometimes. I'm having a hard time with that because I have been so used to "having" to perform to receive attention, so it still distresses me a little that he isn't always trying to have sex with me, somehow. BUT, he calls me everyday we don't see each other (not m